I think there's a good chance you'd really like Homme de Coeur. Like L'Homme Sage, it's discreet, refined, and gentlemanly. The most prominent notes are cypress and iris, with some juniper and a little bit of vanilla to round it out. The open smells a bit peppery to me, but nothing in the official notes suggests that I should be smelling that. Despite the iris, it's not the least bit feminine. The ones I'm really nuts about--L'Inspiratrice, L'Ame Soeur, and Divine--I'm quite sure you'd hate, or maybe you'd appreciate their quality but find them unwearable. They're feminines in the classic French sense.