Alright I have a few questions about these jeans: 1. any rules/suggestions/guidelines to wearing these... i.e. what to wear them with 2. are there such things as darker wash jeans that are ripped? 3. how would I go about ripping the jeans to give it the frayed holes look? 4. does anyone suggest throwing paint on them? I'm sure these are some weird questions but could you please give me the best answers you can. Thanks!