Relationship Dealbreakers

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  1. Jr Mouse

    Jr Mouse Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    Me, ideally I'd want a virgin. If she's been with a small number of guys, I can overlook that. However, if she's been with many guys, I couldn't have a serious relationship with her, it would always be in the back of my head that many other guys had my girl and it would always bother me.

    Also if she's ever done porn or been a hooker, that's definitely a dealbreaker. It shows a willingness to disrespect her body for money.


    Looking to date a high-school kid then?
     


  2. Pennglock

    Pennglock Senior member

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    Totally agree with the little dog comments. You just cannot convince me that a single woman owning a dog is anything other than completely fucked up.
     


  3. GQgeek

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    Totally agree with the little dog comments. You just cannot convince me that a single woman owning a dog is anything other than completely fucked up.

    Better than a cat. Some woman at my office was going on about how she brings her cat everywhere, including when she goes camping and shit. I just looked at the guy beside me like [​IMG]

    A lot of people buy animals as a substitute for affection they don't get elsewhere.
     


  4. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Me, ideally I'd want a virgin. If she's been with a small number of guys, I can overlook that. However, if she's been with many guys, I couldn't have a serious relationship with her, it would always be in the back of my head that many other guys had my girl and it would always bother me.

    Also if she's ever done porn or been a hooker, that's definitely a dealbreaker. It shows a willingness to disrespect her body for money.


    Thanks for telling us you're either
    a) a virgin
    or
    b) incompetent in bed *pump pump shiver*
     


  5. ConcernedParent

    ConcernedParent Senior member

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    Looking to date a high-school kid then?

    Seeing how oversexed kids are now, you mean *middle school.

    b) incompetent in bed *pump pump shiver*

    [​IMG] [​IMG]
     


  6. HgaleK

    HgaleK Senior member

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    Seeing how oversexed kids are now, you mean *middle school.

    Tell me about it... Last time I scored some 7th grade tail the bitch corrected my technique mid game. Totally killed it for me.
     


  7. ChicagoRon

    ChicagoRon Senior member

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    My bottom line 3 are:

    Smaller tits than me
    Bigger gut than tits
    As much as or more body hair than me

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    In addition

    Stupid / ill-informed
    Dishonest
    Breaks plans at the last minute
    Owns a dog
    Owns cats
    Works in the service industry (I don't look down on this, but my schedule is tight as it is, I have a lot of trouble dating bartenders/waitresses unless I don't care if I ever see them)
    Says she doesn't masturbate (if it's true, she's probably impossible to satisfy, but she's probably just a liar)
     


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    imschatz Senior member

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    Takes no initiative. Nothing hotter then a women who knows what she wants in bed (or in life in general) and takes it. A girl who thinks she is entitled to anything is a total turnoff.
     


  9. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Takes no initiative. Nothing hotter then a women who knows what she wants in bed (or in life in general) and takes it. A girl who thinks she is entitled to anything is a total turnoff.

    Fuck yes. I think the highlight of my modest 25 years of life is "fuck yeah that feels good papi, fuck me from behind" [​IMG]
     


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    WorkingClassDude Senior member

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    Girls that have no concept of 'give and take'.
    Girls who are clearly too influenced in thought and mind by a shitty influence/friend (please spare me the 'how old are you's if possible, that shit goes on into their mid-20's sometimes).
    Girls who are too religious, meaning it 'guides' them through life daily (not that I have a problem religion in general, I guess I mean girls who let 'god'/religion influence their lives more than people/life/reality).
    Girls who change the subject just to talk about themselves all the time.
    Daily/regular smoker of course.
    Girls who are bad drivers/parkers/get too many tickets and won't admit they don't know shit about the road.
    Girls who act like a completely different person around their friends (in a negative way -- I know to many degrees this is supposed to be expected but I'm talking about when they act so different that you truly can't stand it-- goes a little hand in hand with 'too influenced by friend').
    Has weirdo cat(s)/dog(s) that she devotes too much of her life in crazy ways (not a girl who just loves her pet, that's a plus).
    Girls who are OCD/perfectionists with ridiculously dumb things.


    If some of those sound a little overboard, I'm trying to convey they become dealbreakers at a certain extreme. A little bit of each of them, again is probably expected in most cases. Lets be honest if there really is more to the girl that would supersede any of these, it probably wouldn't be a problem. Like if she truly IS a good one on every other aspect, obviously imperfection is ok, like with anyone... imperfections are what make us.
     


  11. Yika

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    Eating in bed.
     


  12. Jr Mouse

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    Girls who try and make you a "project." I'm sorry but few things irritate me more then a girl who wants to constantly mold you into something you are not or do not want to be.
     


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    Girls who try and make you a "project." I'm sorry but few things irritate me more then a girl who wants to constantly mold you into something you are not or do not want to be.

    i'm perfect so this never happens to me.
     


  14. Jr Mouse

    Jr Mouse Senior member Dubiously Honored

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    i'm perfect so this never happens to me.

    [​IMG]
     


  15. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    i'm perfect so this never happens to me.

    I'm so stupid and stubborn so this never happens to me.
     


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