• Hi, I am the owner and main administrator of Styleforum. If you find the forum useful and fun, please help support it by buying through the posted links on the forum. Our main, very popular sales thread, where the latest and best sales are listed, are posted HERE

    Purchases made through some of our links earns a commission for the forum and allows us to do the work of maintaining and improving it. Finally, thanks for being a part of this community. We realize that there are many choices today on the internet, and we have all of you to thank for making Styleforum the foremost destination for discussions of menswear.
  • This site contains affiliate links for which Styleforum may be compensated.
  • STYLE. COMMUNITY. GREAT CLOTHING.

    Bored of counting likes on social networks? At Styleforum, you’ll find rousing discussions that go beyond strings of emojis.

    Click Here to join Styleforum's thousands of style enthusiasts today!

    Styleforum is supported in part by commission earning affiliate links sitewide. Please support us by using them. You may learn more here.

Refill of coffee in a cappuccino???

samblau

Senior Member
Joined
Mar 16, 2006
Messages
523
Reaction score
4
Ok, so this may be a bad way to introduce myself to this forum as a neurotic NYer....anyway, I had dinner with my folks in a very nice restaurant in Milford PA, the third or fourth time I have dined at this establishment and my parents are on a first name basis with the wonderful chef/owner. Along with my parents and brother we ordered several drinks (only my father and I drank hard drinks, martinis) salads and entrees (striped bass with a seafood stuffing and tomato coulis for me, fantastic), while we were already stuffed it was a sat night, my dad and I each ordered cappuccinos and the four of us shared two desserts. The cappuccinos came out several minutes before the desserts and at some point I asked if I could have a refill of plain coffee. At the end of the meal we had a check well in excess of $100. What struck me as odd was that the waitress charged me $2 on top of the $4.50 for the cappuccino for the coffee refill. I know from past experience that if I had ordered a $2 coffee in the first place the refill would have been gratis. I have no qualms with the $9 martini (they are huge) or the $4.50 cappuccino, they are indulgences which I accept at a place like that. Maybe I am expecting something for nothing, I just felt it waa a little chincy for the waitress to charge another $2 and call it restaurant poilicy on a tab that high. I have no doubt that the chef/owner would have taken it off if questioned and that staff is often times unable to make mgmt. type decisions that are seemigly insignificant. Nevertheless it has been on my mind. Any opinions?
 

rzi

Senior Member
Joined
Jun 27, 2007
Messages
104
Reaction score
0
I would not waste another moment of your life thinking about something of that importance.

She's just a waitress, not a professor
 

rzi

Senior Member
Joined
Jun 27, 2007
Messages
104
Reaction score
0
Also it's restaurant policy as you said, not her fault then.
 

MrDaniels

Distinguished Member
Joined
Mar 31, 2006
Messages
3,649
Reaction score
430
If she was a smart waitress she would not have charged you. Pretty petty of them (and this is speaking as a former waiter).
 

amerikajinda

Distinguished Member
Joined
Apr 18, 2006
Messages
9,929
Reaction score
223
I guess technically since they are two different drinks, she tallied the bill properly... i.e., you hadn't ordered a coffee originally (it was a cappuccino) and then after the cappuccino was finished you ordered another drink -- a cup of coffee, not a "coffee refill" (which I'm hoping she brought in a different cup) -- I feel that she did the proper thing by charging for the coffee... and after you finished that cup of coffee you would have been eligible for a free refill of coffee...

I think the facts that you'd been there a few times before, your parents are on a first-name basis with the owner, you were four people whose bill exceeded $100 -- are all irrelevant to her charging you for a cup of coffee that you ordered (regardless of whether you had just finished a cappuccino).

am I the only one who thinks this way?
 

GQgeek

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Mar 4, 2002
Messages
16,568
Reaction score
84
Originally Posted by amerikajinda
I guess technically since they are two different drinks, she tallied the bill properly... i.e., you hadn't ordered a coffee originally (it was a cappuccino) and then after the cappuccino was finished you ordered another drink -- a cup of coffee, not a "coffee refill" (which I'm hoping she brought in a different cup) -- I feel that she did the proper thing by charging for the coffee... and after you finished that cup of coffee you would have been eligible for a free refill of coffee...

I think the facts that you'd been there a few times before, your parents are on a first-name basis with the owner, you were four people whose bill exceeded $100 -- are all irrelevant to her charging you for a cup of coffee that you ordered (regardless of whether you had just finished a cappuccino).

am I the only one who thinks this way?


No. I can't imagine ever being upset about a $2 cup of coffee.
 

Britalian

Distinguished Member
Joined
Jul 2, 2006
Messages
2,538
Reaction score
45
Cappuccio after dinner? You deserved it and more.
plain.gif
 

carlhuber

Senior Member
Joined
Jun 8, 2006
Messages
132
Reaction score
0
If you weren't at the receiving end fo the bill there would be just as many brain cells firing saying "wait a second: coffee and cappucino are two completely different drinks; of course they should be rung up separately"


Alternativey: If I order a bottle of brandy should I expect to start getting glasses of grape juice or wine free?
 

DNW

Distinguished Member
Joined
Mar 10, 2006
Messages
9,976
Reaction score
6
Originally Posted by rzi
I would not waste another moment of your life thinking about something of that importance.

She's just a waitress, not a professor


+1

Originally Posted by GQgeek
No. I can't imagine ever being upset about a $2 cup of coffee.

+1

My $0.02 is that the coffee was separate from the cappuccino, so it warranted its own charge.
 

SoCal2NYC

Fashion Hayzus
Joined
Apr 8, 2007
Messages
12,139
Reaction score
10
Neurotic NYer....do you live on the UWS?
 

MrDaniels

Distinguished Member
Joined
Mar 31, 2006
Messages
3,649
Reaction score
430
Originally Posted by carlhuber
If you weren't at the receiving end fo the bill there would be just as many brain cells firing saying "wait a second: coffee and cappucino are two completely different drinks; of course they should be rung up separately"


Alternativey: If I order a bottle of brandy should I expect to start getting glasses of grape juice or wine free?


The diffrence here is that that touch of coffee to warm up what was left in the cappuccino cup probaly cost the restaurant about 2 cents or less. Restaurants dump coffee down the drain all the time but they do not dump out juice or booze. I think the distinction here is the fact that she was just refilling his cup; if he had asked for a fresh coffee that required her to go and get a cup and saucer and serve it there would be no question here.

Believe me, when I was a waiter I could be a dick about not giving things away for free-I am strongly of the philliosphy that restaurants are in the business of selling food and beverages, NOT in the chairty business (which explains why better restaurants do not give free refills on soft drinks, to the shock of the TGI Fridays crowd), but in this case the waitress was just plain petty and risked pissing off a customer and having her tip reduced over a completely unneccessary $2 charge.
 

odoreater

Distinguished Member
Joined
Mar 2, 2005
Messages
8,587
Reaction score
45
Wait, did she just refill the cappuccino cup, or did she get you a new cup and fill it with coffee?
 

Augusto86

Sean Penn's Mexican love child
Joined
Oct 4, 2004
Messages
6,627
Reaction score
0
Originally Posted by romafan
+1

No cappuccino after 10 a.m.
crazy.gif


??

Is that all coffee-based products or just cappuccinos? Can I have espresso after dinner?

Please...I'm on the edge of my goddamn seat....
confused.gif
 

gdl203

Purveyor of the Secret Sauce
Affiliate Vendor
Dubiously Honored
Supporting Member
Joined
Jun 9, 2005
Messages
45,630
Reaction score
54,490
Originally Posted by Augusto86
Is that all coffee-based products or just cappuccinos? Can I have espresso after dinner?
Of course. Cappuccino is a breakfast drink - that's all. It would be the same reaction if you told a Frenchman you had a cafÃ
00a9.png
au lait after dinner.
 

Featured Sponsor

How important is full vs half canvas to you for heavier sport jackets?

  • Definitely full canvas only

    Votes: 91 37.4%
  • Half canvas is fine

    Votes: 90 37.0%
  • Really don't care

    Votes: 26 10.7%
  • Depends on fabric

    Votes: 40 16.5%
  • Depends on price

    Votes: 38 15.6%

Forum statistics

Threads
506,854
Messages
10,592,546
Members
224,330
Latest member
johnsonpauly12
Top