Anyone who knows me knows I never, ever, wear a shirt. Henleys, sweatshirts, and sweaters. So, the belt usually shows, at least somewhat, and it shows when you are moving around. As for it having to be visible. C'mon. Do you wear nice socks? Do you only get out of your PJs to leave the house? It has nothing to do with showing someone else, and a lot to do with feeling good.