Thank you everybody for taking the time to give me feedback. I appreciate it. (no aggro) To eBay it goes. I don't think its a matter of size though, it's just the cut is not flattering for you, it is too traditional of a cut and suits a stockier type of guy, I wish I knew the technical reasons for this but for now you can just settle for "made for conservative middle aged guy's build". As Tiburon said, a slimmer fit would work.