Nice birthright tee lol, I used to have a similar one in a nasty blue like the print on yours. The jacket looks pretty good on you man, the clip closure detail on the zipper looks insane, and I'm not sure what you mean by ugly? The margiela looks fine but you seem to wear it with stuff that goes more with the ccp anyways. Does it fit too tight zipped up? If not then it works for your wife and you, I'd say it's a keeper.