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Totally support all this but it’s also okay for @FlyingMonkey to say, just wondering where this particular trend started.It’s not that deep. Glad to see there are people who get it/don’t give a **** on this forum.
As a ***/queerdo who has been buying **** marketed towards women for over a decade I haven’t really batted an eye at any of the things I’ve seen on Harry Styles, Ezra Miller, Bad Bunny etc in the last few years. It’s really nothing new when you think about the deity in my avatar or someone like Bowie.
People are just not giving a **** anymore. This is a good thing.
I said something in WAYWT but @Go Surface said it better right there.
Totally support all this but it’s also okay for @FlyingMonkey to say, just wondering where this particular trend started.
My 15 yo son loves the way I dress, especially my EG stuff. I've already handed over a few Japanese cut shirts from momotaro that are tight in the chest. I've also mostly persuaded him that Edwin's EU brand and Carhartt WIP are good vfm until he starts earning a living.For those of you with kids old enough to be aware that their dad is into clothes - do your kids think you look cool or super lame?
Totally support all this but it’s also okay for @FlyingMonkey to say, just wondering where this particular trend started.
Quite. I find it interesting that some people assume that the question has something to do with a problem with queerness. Without getting too personal, believe me, that isn't any kind of an issue for me. It's just that s a sociologist and historian, I'm interested in the specific associations and history here - sorry, @Go Surface, but some people do think that do give a **** in an intellectual sense - which is not the same as having a problem with something!
As people have pointed out it's a long time since men wore pearls regularly and that was a very niche, upper class style, nothing to do with the vast majority of people. In recent years, where I come from (UK not the USA), pearls were very much associated with a certain kind of very conservative, upper- /middle class woman - think Margaret Thatcher. In other words, not cool, indeed the opposite of everything cool.
Of course that in itself might explain it - recapture, repurposing etc.. And the truly excessive use of pearls in huge overlapping strands, I think really achieves this and it's truly, flamboyantly queer or at least camp (which are of course not necessarily the same things). However, for me, the single string of pearls worn over whatever you would have worn anyway can't shake the Margaret Thatcher associations - it doesn't come across as transgressive or queer or camp, it just looks awkward. But that's to me, almost 50, with my archaic British politcal / class associations. I realise I'm in a minority on a US-based forum, where most people are at least 20 years younger.
My 15 yo son loves the way I dress, especially my EG stuff. I've already handed over a few Japanese cut shirts from momotaro that are tight in the chest. I've also mostly persuaded him that Edwin's EU brand and Carhartt WIP are good vfm until he starts earning a living.
We disagree about streetwear hoodies, t shirts and sneakers, needless to say.
He's more than come around on music, too. He's a pretty serious guitarist and can lay down some SRV licks as well as John Prine and even some Wes Montgomery. No prefab pop/rap at all...