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Quit soul-sucking job ASAP?

Discussion in 'Business, Careers & Education' started by scientific, Mar 28, 2011.

  1. scientific

    scientific Senior member

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    Could use some advice on this ... quarter-life crisis alert ... tl;dr etc ...

    I currently have what I would describe as a soul-sucking job in the finance industry that I basically got by chance due to the crash and taking what I could find in the aftermath. I call it soul-sucking because it has no connection with my short- or long-term interests, and offers no feasible pathway toward my goals. Because my interests and incentives are unaligned, I'm unengaged, undercompensated, and way underutilized at work. This is not entirely my fault - previous job was like this too but there I had the freedom, if not the mandate, to make it interesting by pursuing independent projects. I'm actually surprised I haven't been laid off from current job because project flow has dried up so much that I literally had nothing to do last week.

    I feel like the creative energy of my 20s is slipping away. Sitting in front of a computer doing stuff I don't care about during the day wears me out to the extent that at night I'm not putting in the effort I need to be on either finding a better job or working on entrepreneurial projects. Also my health has declined. I was planning on going back to grad school to escape this situation this fall but it looks like that is out at least for a year.

    Given this list of grievances, quitting looks like a no brainer ... but it's hard to give up a decent pay check with nothing awaiting. I've been unemployed in the past and seen how it can damage a resume. Another problem is I'm not sure I'll enjoy working for someone else no matter what the job. I'd like to work for myself but I've experienced failing at that in the past too. And while I have enough $ to get by for a while if needed, I definitely do not have FU money to feel comfortable having no job for a long time.

    Ultimately my question is in this situation would you recommend quitting NOW so that I can focus 100% on either finding a new job or starting up something? Or should I suck it up and try to work harder on the next step at nights?
     
  2. GreenFrog

    GreenFrog Senior member

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    Why don't you keep your current job and look for a new one at the same time?

    Once you have a new job lined up for sure, then you should quit your current job.

    Having a job > Being unemployed
     
  3. Slopho

    Slopho Senior member

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    Why don't you keep your current job and look for a new one at the same time?

    Once you have a new job lined up for sure, then you should quit your current job.

    Having a job > Being unemployed


    +1 1/2. Having a job makes getting another job a whole lot easier.
     
  4. Connemara

    Connemara Senior member

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    I would absolutely not quit the current job unless you have a trust fund. How will your bills get paid? How will you afford a nice bottle of red? I don't think any states have unemployment insurance above what, like $500?

    Definitely easier to get a job when you have one.
     
  5. bant

    bant Senior member

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    Unless you are independently wealthy or have a very nice cushion, sack up and find another job before you quit the current one. At the very least, most interviewers will view your quitting as a red flag.
     
  6. Piobaire

    Piobaire Senior member

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    Work = soul sucking.

    /thread
     
  7. Vigilant

    Vigilant Senior member

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    Do not quit. If you have so much free time at the job, use it to look for a new one. Keep the money coming in, and just try to see your opportunities in your current situation.
     
  8. DerekS

    DerekS Senior member

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    Work = soul sucking.

    /thread


    yep. this becomes painfully evident the older I get.

    Unless youre charlie sheen. Wait...nope....even him.
     
  9. aphextwin07

    aphextwin07 Senior member

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    i think your situation is pretty common, and work will always suck unless you're working for yourself. start saving to open up your own business, that's what i'm doing. it might be a long term goal but at least it can make your current job more bearable.
     
  10. globetrotter

    globetrotter Senior member

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    what responsibility do you have? how old are you?

    no responsibility, under 28? quit, go off for 2 years, backpack around the world, join the army or the french foreign legion. come back and join your pathetic life and at least you will have some good stories and memories.

    good luck
     
  11. SirGrotius

    SirGrotius Senior member

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    Start networking through your college's alumni association more actively. Get involved. Keep the job as it looks bad to be looking for work while unemployed, however, if you can do a non-profit for a year before grad school that might be the ticket.

    I also agree the time to do these things is probably up to 28-29. At those ages bouncing around is going to be MUCH more problematic, even if single, as you're starting to compromise your retirement savings too much and you'll look weird.
     
  12. imageWIS

    imageWIS Senior member

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    I would absolutely not quit the current job unless you have a trust fund. How will your bills get paid? How will you afford a nice bottle of red? I don't think any states have unemployment insurance above what, like $500?

    Definitely easier to get a job when you have one.


    If you are on unemployment, you can figure out how to live within that paycheck... if you can't, how can you ever figure out to live within your means?
     
  13. imageWIS

    imageWIS Senior member

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    Why don't you keep your current job and look for a new one at the same time?

    Once you have a new job lined up for sure, then you should quit your current job.

    Having a job > Being unemployed


    +1 1/2. Having a job makes getting another job a whole lot easier.

    And the reason for this is...?
     
  14. Slopho

    Slopho Senior member

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    And the reason for this is...?

    Because you're more marketable. Studies have shown that the people finding new work during this current recession have been the people who were already employed. It shows that you are of value and that the company didn't just dump you at the first sign of trouble.
     
  15. GQgeek

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    Suck it up. As others have said, finding a job is easier if you're employed, for a variety of reasons. I had a big pile of cash when i quit a job I didn't so it was pretty stress-free, but unless you have that, it's inadvisable. I also had the excuse that I was relocating to a new city, which made it more understandable to employers. In finance, I think people are pretty intolerant of kids that can't hack the hours. Quitting for a wishy washy excuse like the job being soul-sucking would be a black mark that early in your career, when most people will hold the opinion - especially after a recession - that you should be thankful to have any job.
     
  16. rjmaiorano

    rjmaiorano Senior member

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    You sound like me 2 years ago. I quit, only because an old friend offered me a position immediately. But that position was also completely opposite of what I would like to do. I am only now getting out of this and into a job that somewhat goes my direction.

    There is no moral to my post. Just saying shit sucks.
     
  17. Douglas

    Douglas Senior member

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    If, as you say, you had nothing to do last week at work, I don't see what the problem is.
     
  18. Connemara

    Connemara Senior member

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    And the reason for this is...?
    Are you serious?
     
  19. imageWIS

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    Are you serious?

    Yes.
     
  20. imageWIS

    imageWIS Senior member

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    Because you're more marketable. Studies have shown that the people finding new work during this current recession have been the people who were already employed. It shows that you are of value and that the company didn't just dump you at the first sign of trouble.

    The 'studies' must based on a very slim caveat of people looking for work in the same industry and in a similar type of position. Switch industries and / or postions and the concept seems to go out the window... especially in this economy. Do have urls the studies?
     

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