what do you guys do when putting on a necktie...put the whole collar up/ neck buttoned/ tie the tie, THEN flip the whole collar back down, or another method? i have been doing it this way for a while, and it has always been a pain. next question.....i always have my pocket linens pressed flat into the folded shape for my breast pocket of jackets, but every time i try wearing a pocket silk, it seems too bulky. have tried flusser's books, etc. for a method that is less bulky, but i can't help but think all of my pocket silks would be MUCH better if significantly smaller in size. suggestions/ help?