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Pregnancy Entrapment - What are your legal rights, if any?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by xchen, Feb 25, 2010.

  1. underwearer

    underwearer Senior member

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    sucks dude. I was stationed with a guy whos ex showed up one day with a 6 year old girl claiming it was his. He was pissed! They took all the tests and it was his. He had to pay all this back pay that acculmulated.
     
  2. Dakota rube

    Dakota rube Senior member

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    I aint gonna rag on your friend. This could happen to any guy.

    You take the bitches word for it, fall in love, and bam. Duped. And whats she get? A nice payday.

    Gotta follow the Leykis 101 Hail Mary approach on this:
    - Telll her he loves her and wants to be with her forever, blah blah
    - Talk about how he wants a family really bad but its not in the best interest of the child or their family to have him so young
    - You want to have a house, white picket fence and all that
    - Convince her this is the way to do it and that you'll wait for her once SHE gets HER career established and has achieved her dreams
    - Take her to the clinic and get that shit sucked out
    - Go to mcdonalds afterwards and get her an egg mcmuffin
    - DUMP THAT BITCH and count your lucky stars


    Unfuckingbelievable.
     
  3. tiecollector

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    A friend of mine and his wife are high school sweethearts (we all went to the same one) and both are really great people. Anyway, they had two kids and my friend did not want another. So she would seduce him, he'd pull out (he's a lot stronger than her but she'd still try to prevent it). So one time he pulls out and ejaculates onto her stomach. She scoops it off and digitially inserts it into herself. [​IMG]

    Perhaps the craziest thing about it is Rick told me this story right in front of her as she smirked and laughed. It was odd, to say the least.


    Sounds like a real two way street they have going. Also what I'd call "digitally imported".
     
  4. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    A friend of mine's girlfriend told him she was on the birth control shot and he could have sex with her with no condom. He did, and now she is pregnant. She has told him her family took her to get the shot and her family that he took her to get it. At this point it looks like no shot was gotten. He found out she had done this to two other guys right before him but he is the first one who got her pregnant. The other males were his friend and a casual encounter from a dating site. She wants to keep the baby, he doesn't. He would prefer abortion or adoption, but has accepted that he might be paying child support for the next 18 years and intends to have no contact with the child and only contact her in court if necessary. He is 22 and she is 23. The girl is literally crazy and it seems like she is doing this on purpose. Does he have any legal recourse or has she ruined his life?
    been there. *sigh* a trip to the clinic, followed by the worst thing i think i have ever done to a woman, and all was sorted.
     
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  5. FidelCashflow

    FidelCashflow Senior member

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    And if he really doesn't want any contact with the kid, I'd have to say that he is a scumbag as well. I mean, no matter how it happened, that's his flesh and blood. I have no respect for guys that won't take care of their own.
    +1, he's basically punishing his unborn child because he fucked up. That child is the only one who ISN'T responsible for this mess, but he's going to be the victim here.
    This is the girl in question....
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    TIP: to embed Youtube clips, put only the encoded part of the Youtube URL, e.g. eBGIQ7ZuuiU between the tags. She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.

    Well at least I understand a bit more about the mindset of the typical person who posts videos of themselves dancing on youtube.
    a trip to the clinic, followed by the worst thing i think i have ever done to a woman, and all was sorted.
    [​IMG]?
     
  6. dl20

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    This is the girl in question....

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    She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.


    Is she retarted?

    dl
     
  7. GQgeek

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    This is the girl in question....

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    She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.


    [​IMG]

    God damn I hope your friend gets that abortion!

    Seriously though, I have an acquaintance that was in this exact situation. He got a chick he didn't care about pregnant, thinking she was on teh pill, but she was "in love" so she insisted on having the baby, thinking he would come around and marry her. He has been in and out of court for the last 10+ years.

    The bitch is crazy, doesn't report any income, and he gets royally fucked in the ass. Since the mother is a crazy bitch with no regard to the kid's development, she constantly talks shit about the father, even though he's been dutifully paying child support for years and does everything he can to stay close to his kid. The courts and the mother make it an almost impossible situation for him though. At this point the kid hardly talks to him b/c of the mother's lies and he's considering just leaving the country to get away from it all.
     
  8. Duff_Man

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    Gotta follow the Leykis 101 Hail Mary approach on this:
    - Telll her he loves her and wants to be with her forever, blah blah
    - Talk about how he wants a family really bad but its not in the best interest of the child or their family to have him so young
    - You want to have a house, white picket fence and all that
    - Convince her this is the way to do it and that you'll wait for her once SHE gets HER career established and has achieved her dreams
    - Take her to the clinic and get that shit sucked out
    - Go to mcdonalds afterwards and get her an egg mcmuffin
    - DUMP THAT BITCH and count your lucky stars


    DO THIS. If he was legitimately tricked into getting her prego, I have no moral problem (abortion ethics aside) with turning the tables on the bitch.
     
  9. Eason

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    If the girl is just crazy, then she can be responsible for what she's done. Guy doesn't deserve to lose his life over it, and don't pretend half of you wouldn't have fucked some chick with no rubber if she told you she was on DEPO anyway. He should leave the country, move somewhere with no child support laws.
     
  10. Nantucket Red

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    been there. *sigh* a trip to the clinic, followed by the worst thing i think i have ever done to a woman, and all was sorted.
    Never been there, thank goodness. Would have done the same, no doubt.
     
  11. DNW

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    If the girl is just crazy, then she can be responsible for what she's done. Guy doesn't deserve to lose his life over it, and don't pretend half of you wouldn't have fucked some chick with no rubber if she told you she was on DEPO anyway. He should leave the country, move somewhere with no child support laws and no extradition treaty with the US; and never return to the US in the next 18-21 years.
    FTFY
     
  12. tiecollector

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    I once had a friend work with a guy who worked for free so that he could declare bankruptcy and didn't have to pay a dime to this type of thing. No idea how this is even possible.
     
  13. SkinnyGoomba

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    If the girl is just crazy, then she can be responsible for what she's done. Guy doesn't deserve to lose his life over it, and don't pretend half of you wouldn't have fucked some chick with no rubber if she told you she was on DEPO anyway. He should leave the country, move somewhere with no child support laws.

    Thats plan B

    plan C:

    [​IMG]
     
  14. suited

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    have someone pay her a visit in the middle of the night and shake her up a little bit.
     
  15. FLMountainMan

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    I once had a friend work with a guy who worked for free so that he could declare bankruptcy and didn't have to pay a dime to this type of thing. No idea how this is even possible.

    I'm almost positive child support survives bankruptcy. If the shrieking harpies over at MADD can get DUI accident claims to, I'm sure child support does. Child support even defeats Florida's abnormally strong homestead protection act.
     
  16. Gradstudent78

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    Vasectomy FTW. Best $750 I ever spent.

    Really only $750? Very tempting.
     
  17. rnoldh

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    I once had a friend work with a guy who worked for free so that he could declare bankruptcy and didn't have to pay a dime to this type of thing. No idea how this is even possible.

    It is not!

    Child support payments are non dischargeable in a bankruptcy. Sort of like student loans.

    He's screwed.
     
  18. Invicta

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    Mother sat me down for a similar talk in my early teens. Scared the daylights out of me and left a lasting impression.

    Yea, had this conversation with Dad prior to going away for my first term in High School. That was awkward then, looking back on it now its hilarious. His advice basically boiled down to always wrap it and don't bang townies.


    Twas good advice...
     
  19. milosz

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    If the girl is just crazy, then she can be responsible for what she's done. Guy doesn't deserve to lose his life over it, and don't pretend half of you wouldn't have fucked some chick with no rubber if she told you she was on DEPO anyway. He should leave the country, move somewhere with no child support laws.

    If I know a chick well enough to ride bareback, I know her well enough to figure out (roughly) how crazy she is.

    If I decide to fuck someone showing clear signs of the crazy, whatever happens is on me.
     
  20. Fuuma

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    No way man. You gotta pay, unless you were actually raped. Edit: Yeah, your friend is a jackass. And if he really doesn't want any contact with the kid, I'd have to say that he is a scumbag as well. I mean, no matter how it happened, that's his flesh and blood. I have no respect for guys that won't take care of their own.
    +1, people just view this in a very weird way. Truth of the matter is that it's not about being unjust to parents but ensuring the child gets the minimal support it needs. Yeah the situation sucks. Best case scenario he convinces her to abort, otherwise tough luck but you're a new daddy.
     

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