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Pregnancy Entrapment - What are your legal rights, if any?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by xchen, Feb 25, 2010.

  1. tagutcow

    tagutcow Senior member

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    I aint gonna rag on your friend. This could happen to any guy.

    You take the bitches word for it, fall in love, and bam. Duped. And whats she get? A nice payday.

    Gotta follow the Leykis 101 Hail Mary approach on this:
    - Telll her he loves her and wants to be with her forever, blah blah
    - Talk about how he wants a family really bad but its not in the best interest of the child or their family to have him so young
    - You want to have a house, white picket fence and all that
    - Convince her this is the way to do it and that you'll wait for her once SHE gets HER career established and has achieved her dreams
    - Take her to the clinic and get that shit sucked out
    - Go to mcdonalds afterwards and get her an egg mcmuffin
    - DUMP THAT BITCH and count your lucky stars


    I'm only dimly aware of who Tom Leykis is, but seriously, this is revolting. Yeah, I know it's intended to be outrageous and provocative, but this sort of "ha-ha-only-serious" flippancy is typical of true moral cowards who can't bear to consider the real consequences of their beliefs.
     
  2. globetrotter

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    I aint gonna rag on your friend. This could happen to any guy.

    You take the bitches word for it, fall in love, and bam. Duped. And whats she get? A nice payday.

    Gotta follow the Leykis 101 Hail Mary approach on this:
    - Telll her he loves her and wants to be with her forever, blah blah
    - Talk about how he wants a family really bad but its not in the best interest of the child or their family to have him so young
    - You want to have a house, white picket fence and all that
    - Convince her this is the way to do it and that you'll wait for her once SHE gets HER career established and has achieved her dreams
    - Take her to the clinic and get that shit sucked out
    - Go to mcdonalds afterwards and get her an egg mcmuffin
    - DUMP THAT BITCH and count your lucky stars


    a guy my brother knows actually did this. he had made his girlfriend take her pill in front of him every morning, and she switched the pills for something (the story I heard was some kind of pill used to clean contact lenses) and then she got pregnant. he didnt ever take her home from the clinic, after he checked her in, he called her dad.

    she was a bitch, but he was, too. world's full of A-holes
     
  3. scarphe

    scarphe Senior member

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    a guy my brother knows actually did this. he had made his girlfriend take her pill in front of him every morning, and she switched the pills for something (the story I heard was some kind of pill used to clean contact lenses) and then she got pregnant. he didnt ever take her home from the clinic, after he checked her in, he called her dad. she was a bitch, but he was, too. world's full of A-holes
    not the best plan she coudl back out at eh last minute, i would wait until the bill had to be paid and run for the cab i had waiting,
     
  4. tiecollector

    tiecollector Senior member

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    She wants to keep the baby, he doesn't. He would prefer abortion or adoption, but has accepted that he might be paying child support for the next 18 years and intends to have no contact with the child and only contact her in court if necessary. He is 22 and she is 23.
    Sounds like a real man, how far we've fallen. Get a paternity test at the very least. If I were him, I'd pray this chick has good genes and put the child support payments towards cooking school
     
  5. obiter dictum

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    She wants to keep the baby, he doesn't. He would prefer abortion or adoption, but has accepted that he might be paying child support for the next 18 years and intends to have no contact with the child and only contact her in court if necessary. He is 22 and she is 23.
    Had to edit this three times because I couldn't find the words to describe how disgusting this is. Yes it sucks that he got fooled, but that isn't the kids fault. If anything, I despise your friend even more than the girl who fooled him. As LA Guy said:
    I mean, no matter how it happened, that's his flesh and blood. I have no respect for guys that won't take care of their own.
     
  6. DeadDJ

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    Out of curiosity, how did the other guys find out? When the ploy failed was she just nuts enough to say "Shit, I was hoping you'd get me pregnant!"
     
  7. Davidko19

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    I'm only dimly aware of who Tom Leykis is, but seriously, this is revolting. Yeah, I know it's intended to be outrageous and provocative, but this sort of "ha-ha-only-serious" flippancy is typical of true moral cowards who can't bear to consider the real consequences of their beliefs.

    Id do this if it happened to me and it was a last ditch effort. Has nothing to do with not dealing with the consequences so put YOUR morals aside....

    OP said the dude didnt want the kid and the chick is a bitch. Why on earth wouldnt you do everything to NOT bring a kid into a situation where his father doesnt want him and his mother is bat-shit crazy?

    No kid. End of story.


    FWIW: My roommate was in this story. Didnt want the kid but had him and of course loves him and all, but the baby-momma is all kinds of crazy. Has kids with other guys, legal trouble, money problem, etc... Its bad man. Plus its held the guy back from all kinds of career opportunities. Thats my birth control, looking at him.
     
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    I always wondered if it was possible to elect to be a single father, rather then pay child support or deal with a crazy ex forever.

    Almost all of us who are dating stand to have this happen, but I feel its important to raise your own to make a positive impact on society.
     
  10. Milpool

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    I still remember my freshman year of college. . .

    The RA for my floor sat us all down in the first week and said "you guys are all going to get good jobs. Always wrap your dick. Some women are so crazy that they will try to get pregnant to trap you into marrying them because they want a guy with a good job."
     
  11. Harold falcon

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    Vasectomy FTW. Best $750 I ever spent.
     
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    grind up Plan B into any uncooked food and pray?
     
  13. Nantucket Red

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    I still remember my freshman year of college. . .

    The RA for my floor sat us all down in the first week and said "you guys are all going to get good jobs. Always wrap your dick. Some women are so crazy that they will try to get pregnant to trap you into marrying them because they want a guy with a good job."


    Mother sat me down for a similar talk in my early teens. Scared the daylights out of me and left a lasting impression.
     
  14. FLMountainMan

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    A friend of mine and his wife are high school sweethearts (we all went to the same one) and both are really great people. Anyway, they had two kids and my friend did not want another. So she would seduce him, he'd pull out (he's a lot stronger than her but she'd still try to prevent it). So one time he pulls out and ejaculates onto her stomach. She scoops it off and digitially inserts it into herself. [​IMG]

    Perhaps the craziest thing about it is Rick told me this story right in front of her as she smirked and laughed. It was odd, to say the least.
     
  15. xchen

    xchen Senior member

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    This is the girl in question....
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    TIP: to embed Youtube clips, put only the encoded part of the Youtube URL, e.g. eBGIQ7ZuuiU between the tags. She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.
     
  16. xchen

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    I read everyone's replies, and thanks!

    I think ultimately when the baby comes he will do the right thing. He had said before that if she had indeed gotten birth control and it was an act of God he would be fine with it, but when she was caught in a lie he changed his mind.

    He's not a horrible guy or anything and we'll see what comes of it. He has the link to this threak bookmarked and will be reading the responses as well since he wanted to know what his chances were. I think right now he is going to hire a lawyer to scare her into aborting or something but who knows if it will work.
     
  17. FLMountainMan

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    This is the girl in question....

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    She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.


    Wow, there are people that dance worse than I do.
     
  18. Milpool

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    A friend of mine and his wife are high school sweethearts (we all went to the same one) and both are really great people. Anyway, they had two kids and my friend did not want another. So she would seduce him, he'd pull out (he's a lot stronger than her but she'd still try to prevent it). So one time he pulls out and ejaculates onto her stomach. She scoops it off and digitially inserts it into herself. [​IMG]

    Perhaps the craziest thing about it is Rick told me this story right in front of her as she smirked and laughed. It was odd, to say the least.


    WTF
     
  19. texas_jack

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    This is the girl in question....

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    She's put on a few pounds since then, not including baby weight. I haven't seen her since Halloween since I cut off contact with her.


    Would hit anally.
     
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