FidelCashflow
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Has this ever happened to you?
I went to visit my older sister and brother-in-law who recently got married and are just getting settled. I wanted to get them a really practical gift, and they would always talk about how much home renovations were going to cost them. I tried to give them a small amount of money as a belated wedding present to maybe buy a piece of furniture with or at least start some of the smaller home renovation tasks, but they flatly refused. It almost turned into an confrontation with me pleading with them, then apologizing to them. Strangely enough, in my family this is pretty typical to refuse gifts and make a big fuss over not accepting it.
I really and truly hate giving gifts because in my experience the gift is always either:
1) an insignificant piece of crap no one really wants or
2) so big, its almost over the top in which people feel obligated to refuse
Conversely, I also hate receiving gifts. The worst is when I have to pretend I like and cherish it when its of no use to me at all.
I went to visit my older sister and brother-in-law who recently got married and are just getting settled. I wanted to get them a really practical gift, and they would always talk about how much home renovations were going to cost them. I tried to give them a small amount of money as a belated wedding present to maybe buy a piece of furniture with or at least start some of the smaller home renovation tasks, but they flatly refused. It almost turned into an confrontation with me pleading with them, then apologizing to them. Strangely enough, in my family this is pretty typical to refuse gifts and make a big fuss over not accepting it.
I really and truly hate giving gifts because in my experience the gift is always either:
1) an insignificant piece of crap no one really wants or
2) so big, its almost over the top in which people feel obligated to refuse
Conversely, I also hate receiving gifts. The worst is when I have to pretend I like and cherish it when its of no use to me at all.