JJ Katz
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Some time ago, I began a thread on the topic of ‘overdressing’ which generated an extended discussion, not just on overdressing but also on the related issue of ‘proper’ dress. A couple of more recent threads (“Are neckties going to go the way of bowties?”, etc.) have also delved into the issue of what constitutes dressing ‘appropriately’ for an occasion.
This thread is NOT to discuss where formality in dress is headed or whether we like it or not. It is purely an examination of the concept of appropriate clothing and how one might define it.
In years back, I subscribed to the Esquire archive and spent a fair amount of time leafing through the 1930s issues. Marvellous illustrations, quality articles., etc. One thing that really struck me, though, was the high percentage of adverts which stressed that their product was ‘correct’. It projected a real sense of insecurity and/or social conformism. “Sure, this is a good product at a good price, etc. but above all else no one will eb able to criticise you for it. It’s correct!”
US (generally ‘Western’) society has come to advocate a great deal more individual autonomy, since then, but evidently this consideration remains an issue to some degree. Indeed, it is my impression that recent years have seen a less liberal attitude towards personal choice, in many spheres.
I will start with three definitions of ‘appropriate’ dress that I think are implicit in some comments posted on Styleforum but with which I disagree.
(1) Appropriate dress is clothing which matches quite closely (exactly) what ‘everyone’ else is wearing at a given time/place. Certainly, it is clothing that will not occasion remark.
(2) Appropriate dress is clothing that will not elicit a negative impression or response in anyone present.
(3) Appropriate dress is clothing that conforms to the prescriptive, comprehensive rules that were very broadly shared well into the mid to late 20th C.
The first and greatest issue I have with any of these definitions is that they misuse the term ‘inappropriate’; they are exaggerated. If you are not dressed appropriately, you have committed a minor but very real faux pas. You are being borderline rude. There are modes of dress which may not be low-profile, or politically astute or signal group membership or elite status or down-at-heel status but are not as bad as ‘inappropriate.’
Addressing specific definitions, I think that (1) is very anti-individualist / conformist / illiberal. It seems to me absurd that in a society where much more profound personal choices are sacralised, dressing just like everyone else should be in any way considered necessary or proper. I don’t disagree that there may be personal disadvantages to standing out from the crowd (in this and any other manner) but that isn’t the same thing as saying it is not appropriate. Expediency and correctness are not synonymous, in a liberal ontology.
The problem with (2) is that it requires substantial qualification. Some people will take offence at non-conformist clothing (1), or clothing that they arbitrarily conflate with a negative ‘identity’, or clothing that they simply have an aesthetic distaste for. I think (2) is a definition that leaves nearly any clothing choice open to criticism.
Definition (3) seems to me anachronistic and, from the opposite side of the ideological spectrum, also clearly illiberal.
So, what does constitute appropriate/inappropriate clothing? Building on the terms I used in the overdressing post, I would say that one is dressed inappropriately for an occasion if:
(a) clothes are soiled / noxious / in tatters, when not engaging in physically ‘dirty’ labour.
(b) clothes prevent participation in the core activity.
(c) clothes do not conform to a clear dress code been specified by the hosts.
(d) clothes formality / elegance in very sharp contrast to what one might reasonably expect to experience in that context.
(e) clothes so flamboyant or anachronistic to be a distraction, when in a particularly sombre context
What should be immediately apparent is that these rules would suggest that a relatively broad range of clothing is ‘appropriate’, with the exception of rather specific situations.
Thoughts? Specific settings / situations you have in mind?
This thread is NOT to discuss where formality in dress is headed or whether we like it or not. It is purely an examination of the concept of appropriate clothing and how one might define it.
In years back, I subscribed to the Esquire archive and spent a fair amount of time leafing through the 1930s issues. Marvellous illustrations, quality articles., etc. One thing that really struck me, though, was the high percentage of adverts which stressed that their product was ‘correct’. It projected a real sense of insecurity and/or social conformism. “Sure, this is a good product at a good price, etc. but above all else no one will eb able to criticise you for it. It’s correct!”
US (generally ‘Western’) society has come to advocate a great deal more individual autonomy, since then, but evidently this consideration remains an issue to some degree. Indeed, it is my impression that recent years have seen a less liberal attitude towards personal choice, in many spheres.
I will start with three definitions of ‘appropriate’ dress that I think are implicit in some comments posted on Styleforum but with which I disagree.
(1) Appropriate dress is clothing which matches quite closely (exactly) what ‘everyone’ else is wearing at a given time/place. Certainly, it is clothing that will not occasion remark.
(2) Appropriate dress is clothing that will not elicit a negative impression or response in anyone present.
(3) Appropriate dress is clothing that conforms to the prescriptive, comprehensive rules that were very broadly shared well into the mid to late 20th C.
The first and greatest issue I have with any of these definitions is that they misuse the term ‘inappropriate’; they are exaggerated. If you are not dressed appropriately, you have committed a minor but very real faux pas. You are being borderline rude. There are modes of dress which may not be low-profile, or politically astute or signal group membership or elite status or down-at-heel status but are not as bad as ‘inappropriate.’
Addressing specific definitions, I think that (1) is very anti-individualist / conformist / illiberal. It seems to me absurd that in a society where much more profound personal choices are sacralised, dressing just like everyone else should be in any way considered necessary or proper. I don’t disagree that there may be personal disadvantages to standing out from the crowd (in this and any other manner) but that isn’t the same thing as saying it is not appropriate. Expediency and correctness are not synonymous, in a liberal ontology.
The problem with (2) is that it requires substantial qualification. Some people will take offence at non-conformist clothing (1), or clothing that they arbitrarily conflate with a negative ‘identity’, or clothing that they simply have an aesthetic distaste for. I think (2) is a definition that leaves nearly any clothing choice open to criticism.
Definition (3) seems to me anachronistic and, from the opposite side of the ideological spectrum, also clearly illiberal.
So, what does constitute appropriate/inappropriate clothing? Building on the terms I used in the overdressing post, I would say that one is dressed inappropriately for an occasion if:
(a) clothes are soiled / noxious / in tatters, when not engaging in physically ‘dirty’ labour.
(b) clothes prevent participation in the core activity.
(c) clothes do not conform to a clear dress code been specified by the hosts.
(d) clothes formality / elegance in very sharp contrast to what one might reasonably expect to experience in that context.
(e) clothes so flamboyant or anachronistic to be a distraction, when in a particularly sombre context
What should be immediately apparent is that these rules would suggest that a relatively broad range of clothing is ‘appropriate’, with the exception of rather specific situations.
Thoughts? Specific settings / situations you have in mind?