So general consensus is: Midnight & Navy Grenadine is a beautiful tie but doesn't go with the suit and shirt in a wedding context. Glen Plaid would be perfect but should be paired with a white shirt. (though it looks like the swatch is a little darker than the shirt, maybe not significantly so though) Hence neither choice is ideal? Back to the drawing board. I guess I could try and switch to a white shirt but I doubt I have time for mtm and I might get in trouble for ditching the expensive shirt last minute. or take recommendations? I am in Australia (not Sydney/Melbourne) and have 3 weeks until the wedding so I need to order something online now. I was hoping to get everything from Sam Hober since they appear to have impeccable customer service and claim a construction and delivery time of under 2 weeks. I must say I have an aversion to silver ties. If anyone wants to chime in on recommendations one what they think would work given the constraints it would be great.