Official Wedding Attire Question/Answer/Picture Thread

Discussion in 'Classic Menswear' started by unbelragazzo, Dec 31, 2012.

  1. ImTheGroom

    ImTheGroom Senior member

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    Second round of tie shopping, but a few notes before you state your opinions. Don't comment on the fit of the pants - no suspenders, so they are sitting low and thus appear long, plus wallet and phone in the pockets causing bulge. Won't carry anything in the pockets on the day. I don't need comments on the weird look on my face :p You may feel free to compliment my fantastic silk plush hat, acquired for a mere $125. Small heads for the win!

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  3. unbelragazzo

    unbelragazzo Jewfro Dubiously Honored

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    B3 is alright but needs a smaller knot. The rest I'd advise against.

    I'm not an expert on this, but I don't think they'd where you put a tie pin.
     
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    # 2 the red and gold
     


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    I would say so too. I like the two green ones....just not for this event; seem more like you are going to Ascot than looking formal and dapper for your wedding.

    Have you thought of a light silver tie?

    I think it is the shirt that is deciding the tie....the tail is wagging the dog. I think with a white shirt your tie choices would be far less limited.
     


  6. ImTheGroom

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    Yes, that is true, but I'm quite set on an interesting Winchester. You like the red and gold over the deep red/blue ones in the B set? I'm quite fond of B3 and B4. While the red and gold IS my nicest tie, it seems a travesty not to wear a new one at my wedding!

    That is where you wear a stick pin, according to my extensive research. There may have been a trend of wearing it in the knot, back in the 19th/early 20th centuries, but I think it may also be a misconception among costume designers. Anyway, nowadays, that's where it's worn. I've seen it worn in that spot, and a bit lower, but I think just an inch or so under the knot (like so) is the sharpest looking.
     


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    unbelragazzo Jewfro Dubiously Honored

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    Maybe it's the knot that's making it look weird. Back then they wore more ascot type things that were more flowy. Get a dimple in the tie and maybe it won't look as odd. What knot are you using?
     


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    Going to use a full windsor; that's an untightened half windsor, because I didn't want to stretch/crease the store's tie, since I wasn't certain I'd buy it. The four in hand has been acceptable with morning dress for over a hundred years, and an ascot should only be worn with a removable wing collar - which is the only type of wing collar worth bothering with. I considered removable collars but decided I'd like my shirt to have more than one purpose.

    Anyway the knot will probably be about that width, but not as long, and much more tightly wrapped. That's just a quick job in the store to snap the photo.
     


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    I prefer the tie pin a bit lower as Mr Middleton (father of the bride)
     


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    unbelragazzo Jewfro Dubiously Honored

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    I wasn't suggesting wearing an ascot. I strongly encourage you to use a four in have knot instead of a Windsor though. That knot is almost as big as your head.
     


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    Four in hand with those lapels, and collar spread? Out of the question, in my opinion. It will undoubtedly be Full Windsor for me.
     


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    Yeah, that knot looks ridiculous.

    B3 is definitely the least-bad of those options.
     


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    Can you be talked down to at least a half Windsor? It's really too big.
     


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    I think you get a full Windsor without being to buldgy. Just need to tie it tight.
     


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