I have a few questions if you would be so kind. My wedding is a while away, October next year to be exact, but in the excitement I have started to plan what I want to wear; right now I'm thinking of a grey 3-piece suit (not sure how dark yet, but definitely nothing too light) which will be MTM closer to the date. The groomsmen will be in whatever gray suit they can come up with. I know at least one doesn’t have a suit, another that possibly won’t and the father of the bride definitely doesn’t, but bless him, he wants to suit up for the wedding. If need be should they rent one, or should I ask for them to buy one? I was thinking that we could all have a glen check tie (either kent wang or a drakes) or would this be too matchy? The bride at this moment likes a soft lavender dress for her bridesmaids, if she does have this dress I was thinking a few lavender flowers (through our button holes) for our boutonniere. Do you guys think this is too much? The other option that I like is a red carnation for each of us. Lastly, I was hoping to have a white pocket square for each of us, will this be too busy with the boutonnieres as well? I’m hoping for simple, but with a bit of elegance. Any thoughts and tips will be greatly appreciated.