this is my first post! I am hoping you guys can give me some help. i am going crazy looking for what i want, and pretty much blue collar mentality so my ideas might be a little "off" haha. so first off the wedding is not extremely formal. I am not wearing a suit or a tux, but I would like to look good and have some nice clothes. the rules set by the wife to be, is that olive and brown would be acceptable. so using that, i am imagining an olive shirt, dark brown pants and possibly a vest and a tie of a color i am not sure about. I have picked up a pair of peter millar pants that use a mink color loro piona super 130 fabric, and they are currently being tailored. my next plan was to pickup an olive shirt, but i cannot currently find that. i was told the color is a fall color and that it would be on shelves in a few weeks. i am considering these shoes, but have not bought anything yet. http://www.shoes.com/en-US/Product/EC1304896-5173146/BED;STU/Mocha+Dirty+Veg/Men's+Ellington.aspx I am not sure if a vest is proper attire without a suit, and if so, i am still unsure of french cuffs or not. please help me out, i dont wanna look like a dummy on "the day" !