need help w/apartment

[Joffrey]

Start keeping tampons in your bathroom. Show some courtesy for christ's sake

 

[King Salmon]

Originally Posted by GQgeek

I have the extra toothbrushes and a spare bathrobe too.
Do you buy the same toothbrushes you would use, or do you get the cheap ones? My dentist informs me that cheap toothbrushes are bad for your gums (well, not your gums but the girl's gums) but she's only going to use them a few times.

 

[brimley]

While it's possible she was repulsed by something in the bathroom, don't overlook the "bathroom as rallying point" possibility. If a girl and her friends want to bail from some guys at the bar, they excuse themselves, talk it over, and then can make a quick exit on the way back. Likewise, seeing yourself in a mirror can spark some soul-searching and panic if you're in an uncomfortable situation, especially if you look a little trashed.

 

[j]

Maybe you should take her to a restaurant that has glass tables. You could watch yourself while you are eating.

 

[singhstyle]

I simply think she went in to the bathroom to talk to a girlfriend on the phone, had second thoughts, and left. Nothing wrong with that... she might have sobered up enough to use her head for a change.

 

[jefe]

Just shy of 2 years old?

 

[unjung]

 

[Douglas]

It's possible the reason for her leaving had nothing to do with the bathroom. Perhaps she texted her friend who said, I dunno, her ex-bf she's been dying to get back together with showed up at the bar. Or maybe the friend said "Help, your sister Jenny just got taken away by the cops."

Or perhaps she was out at the bar and having a desperate case of the diarrhea and just used you for a clean place to void her bowels.

 

[lynchpatrickj]

Was there hair in your sink?

 

[fredfred]

The trip to the bathroom may have "woken her up" from making out with you, or talking with you, and she suddenly said "what am I doing here?". A break in the flow of things can be a deal ender.

Chicks will *always* use your bathroom. So it must be clean.

Another key thing - your bed. They all see it if you have a small apartment. A magazine article on this exact topic once told me to have a "white fluffy comforter". It looks clean, it looks inviting, and is comforting to her. So her brain says, "ok, that's a nice bed". Does your bed look like something she'll want to be in? She'll make a note of it the second she sees it, even if it is just when she has entered your place.

It's also always good to have an interesting alcoholic drink handy. A small bottle of champagne is relatively inexpensive and can give you an excuse to sit on the couch and drink before you start/resume making out. It lets her brain think she just is there for a glass of champagne, which is ok. Being there to make out, in her brain, is not ok.

A recommend a chocolate liquer drink of some sort. Tell her you will make her dessert "Let's go to my place, I'll make you dessert. Do you like chocolate?". (can't fail line)

have fun and upload the video...

 

[unjung]

All, sorry to say, but the OP ended up coming out, got married in Canada, and adopted two twin boys from Central America. His partner received a promotion when the boys were eight and ended up having an affair with his boss (a woman), and going straight. The OP's partner was able to convince the judge that he should have the boys, and the OP quit his job to "find himself" in South America. Last report was that he'd contracted AIDS from a transvestite hooker and moved back in with his mother in Colorado. I don't expect he's worried about keeping the bathroom clean anymore.