Need a nice suit for my wedding in Chicago

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  1. starbuk

    starbuk Member

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    I've had my suits made to measure in Thailand for the past few years and now that I'm engaged, I won't be setting foot there. Looking for a suit / tuxedo in the Chicagoland area that is a reasonable price. Talked to Despos and he is way out of my price range. So far considering Suit Supply but I have no idea the quality of their work.

    Any suggestions on where to go?

    I have a nice pair of Vass shoes that look like this and I want to wear them since I need to be comfortable, will it go with a tux?
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    edit - looks like I have a lot to read up on. Thought we were going to do all black matching suits but that sounds like a mistake. I like the idea of doing a navy tuxedo and having groomsmen get a similar color.

    Is it most appropriate to wear a suit during the ceremony then change into a tuxedo for the reception?
     
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  2. Caustic Man

    Caustic Man Senior member

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    I'm new to the Chicago area but I have visited the SuSu store several times. My recommendation on them is to stick with the red line if you can. It's more expensive but the quality can be quite a good value. I don't like the lesser lines but many here have utilized them with good results.
     


  3. Simplex

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    Another option is to scour Gilt City as they'll sometimes have promotions from different MTM or Bespoke shops (also it's great for trying out new restaurants).
     


  4. starro

    starro Senior member

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    FYI, shoes with broguing and tuxes don't mix.
     


  5. starbuk

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    Anyone else agree? I think you may be right. My fiance is freaking out about the whole not matching suits bit...
     


  6. LA Guy

    LA Guy Opposite Santa Staff Member Admin Moderator

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    Yes, they typically don't match.

    As for your fiancee freaking out, why not matching navy or midnight blue suits? It's a decent compromise.
     


  7. Caustic Man

    Caustic Man Senior member

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    He's absolutely right. Only patent leather oxfords or opera pumps may be worn with a tux.
     


  8. starro

    starro Senior member

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    Generally, having groomsmen wearing exactly the same suits is a stupid idea. (now it's up to you to phrase it in a palatable way to your fiancée.)

    A modern relaxation of black tie adds black calf leather oxford to the list as well.
     


  9. LA Guy

    LA Guy Opposite Santa Staff Member Admin Moderator

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    I agree that it's not a great idea. That said, if a bride asks for it, it's probably a much more stupid idea to stand your ground on that issue. There are ways to make it look at least decent.
     


  10. starro

    starro Senior member

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    Of course, having a fight over said issue is stupider. There is an important (dare I say philosophical?) difference between the principles of male and female attire. Which becomes problematic when the woman starts dictating what the groomsmen should be wearing. What would be ideal in this situation, as well as foreboding of future marital bliss, is for OP to handle his and the groomsmen's dress, and his fiancée hers and the bridesmaids'. Clearly, OP doesn't strike us as the slob so careless that, if left to his own devices, would make egregious decisions for their special day.
     


  11. Count de Monet

    Count de Monet Senior member

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    This is sage advice.
     


  12. chogall

    chogall Senior member

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    A wedding planner, if OP hired one, will be great in defusing this situation.
     


  13. starro

    starro Senior member

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    I'm thinking big picture here. If OP and his wife-to-be can't resolve this minor issue, how much hope can they have for the rest of their relationship? Then again, a huge discount needs to be taken to correct for an Internet forum's tendency to blow things out of proportion.
     


  14. Caustic Man

    Caustic Man Senior member

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    FTFY.
     


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    When you say matching navy or midnight blue suits, do you mean different suits in the same color or do you mean exactly the same suit in navy?

    I wouldn't worry too much about big picture topics when someone is soliciting wedding attire advice. I'm sure we can put our relationship back together after this, the most jarring of arguments.
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    The bride will be wearing her dress without the veil and it is an evening wedding at a nice hotel. I think a tuxedo is more appropriate for the groom than a suit, is this correct? Will the groomsmen have to wear tuxedos or can they wear suits if I wear a tux? As far as the matching goes, I am leaning towards being similar but not matching exactly, be it having different style suits, shirts or ties.
     
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