New poster. Please be kind. I am getting married in July. It is a Saturday evening, black tie optional affair. As such, I am wearing a tuxedo, but I am still deciding what to wear around my neck. I happen to like the look of a tuxedo with a black vest and a silver drop tie as opposed to a bowtie. My fiancee likes it even more than me (she is not a bowtie fan). Here's my question: in ten years, will we look back at our pictures and regret this choice? Or is the drop tie with tuxedo look here to stay? (It seems to have persisted for a while now.) Thanks.