Svenn
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Do you really want to settle down? There's nothing in your post about what you value (freedom vs. stability) or what you really want for yourself in life (professional or monetary achievements? kids?).
I agree, the above info would be necessary to make a determination.
I don't necessarily agree with the 'grow up' comments- there's nothing particularly mature about maintaining a stable relationship, or particularly unselfish about wanting to have kids... even the lowliest white trash or the common pigeon is capable of those feats.
Everyone on this planet and in this life is just seeking pleasure, whatever form it may be in. Perhaps you value the thrill of a beginning relationship more than a long commitment... nothing wrong with that, you're just a romantic. The only thing that seems to prevent you from pursuing that is some vague womanly concern about being 'single forever,' no?