got a little bit of a dilemma and would like some advice on how to proceed: my friends bachelor party is next week in vegas. he planned everything with little input and paid for (most) everything ahead of time. we are expected to, rightly so i believe, to reimburse him when we get there. price for only 2 dinners + 2 day cabana rental is ~$2000+ pp (outside of airfare/rooms), and this is excluding anything else we might want to do. he gave us the final expenses earlier this week. the problem is, i dont make/have a lot of money (he makes, according to his brother, 7 figures a year). it was hard as shit for me to save the ~1200 that i am bringing for the trip. also i am staying in his room, so i dont have to pay for it. he sort of knows my financial situation, and we are really close friends (im in the wedding party if that matters). in the past he has fronted me some money for trips to cover hotels/bars that i am still paying him back. he never brings up what i owe him, but i pretty much send him whatever i can, when i can. i really cant afford to be paying him back any more money than i already am. i understand this is his bachelor party, but im not interested in chillin in the cabanas or the dinners (ok slightly the dinners). how do i approach this situation? thanks.