Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Connemara, Oct 19, 2011.
Conne's the best forum member ever. Don't know how I missed this threak but it sure delivers.
We've all been there. It's a matter of just letting it go. It will take time, but you must not come from a needy mind set. There are tons and tons of other girls out there.
I won't be a daddy. Yay!
Things are awkward. I haven't seen her since Sunday. Tried to get her to hang out last night, she said she'd keep me updated. Texted her and said "Out of work yet?" and the reply was "Yeah, home. Have a good time." I've also noticed that she rarely initiates conversation. The good mornings always come from me. Tonight, she is going to happy hour and said we'll "possibly" hang after that.
Am I being weird? I thought people start relationships because they like spending time with the person. Sigh.
This is dones-ville, I'm afraid.
You had your fun. There will be others.
Time to pack up your saddlebags, hop on your horse, and head back out onto the prairie.
So the consensus is that it's over? I guess I realize that. But I like her. I hate dating.
you are, and you'd have AIDS.
Though it might take another 5 years.
it seems like you can see the signs, its just you don't really read them
I am so speechless re: what just happened.
We met up at our usual spot after work. Some mutual friends joined. Things were fine for a couple of hours...she wasn't talking to me all that much, but she hadn't seen her friends in a while. Thirty minutes ago her back was turned to me so I poked her with a toothpick a few times. She turned around and had this look of pure hatred on her face. I have rarely seen someone look at me this way, I can't explain how awful it was.
Crazy Bitch: "You can leave, you know."
Me: "What are you talking about?"
CB: "Do you think you're sleeping over? Do you?"
Me: "I am really confused right now."
CB: "Maybe you should just go."
I got up, grabbed my coat, and left. Texted her, "What the fuck is wrong with you?" and she replied "Sorry." I told her how awful, embarrassed (this happened in front of friends of ours), and pained I felt. He response? "You poked me with a toothpick."
I've dated some nasty women, but I truly am in shock over this. Like I said, the loathing in her eyes/face...it spoke volumes. Feel really upset right now.
Stop being a little girl. Move on. This woman is a POS anyway.
I realize I'm new around here... but Conne has to be trolling, or the most obtuse guy ever.
Women are crazy, she's got self confidence problems and uses you to bolster her self esteem. When she thinks you're with another girl she wants you, when she thinks you're going to walk she puts out, when you're accesable she looses interest. Ditch the crazy and find a decent lady (or just elevnty billion more fb's if that's your thing).
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