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I've never felt this used.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Connemara, Oct 19, 2011.

  1. globetrotter

    globetrotter Stylish Dinosaur

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  2. Piobaire

    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    Sorry, G33k, but that one never gets old.
     


  3. Connemara

    Connemara [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jST2Sv63WQ']

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    You know, I kind of like this idea. Justification is simple: I don't have anything to lose. What does everyone else think?

    I almost spit out my coffee at this comment.

    Yeah I was pissed at that but then I got fazed, as AC pointed out.
     


  4. Harold falcon

    Harold falcon Stylish Dinosaur

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    Dude, you've been Friend-Zoned. Cut your losses, never speak to her ever again. You are done here.
     


  5. acidboy

    acidboy Stylish Dinosaur

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    conne dated mark I's ex-gf...
     


  6. tomgirl

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    Lol this is like something one of my girlfriends would tell me about, which I'd respond to with something like "sounds like an asshole who doesn't respect you - move on."

    Of course, they would then ignore my blunt but sage advice, end up getting drunk texted and become said jerk off's good time girl in between sobbing to me wondering why he doesn't love her.

    Anyway, there's nothing wrong with a "$90 dinner" spent on someone he's not exclusive with. IMO, it shows class if a guy does that at any stage in the relationship, whether it be courting or serious.

    Move on, conne!
     


  7. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Tomgirl I spent $90 on my own dinner tonight, want to eat dinner across from me?
     


  8. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    brb wallet is in my car

    *sound of running on pavement*
     
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  9. acidboy

    acidboy Stylish Dinosaur

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    uhm, this is conne...
     


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    Rambo Stylish Dinosaur

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  11. Ambulance Chaser

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    If Conne was in the Friend Zone, he wouldn't have gotten as far as he did. I'm willing to bet that this girl slept with the other guy really quickly and is trying to justify it to herself (and everybody else) by saying that they're in "kind of" a relationship. In other words, this guy is a few steps ahead of Conne, nothing that can't be overcome. I'm a little biased, but I think texting is a minimal investment worth making. Worst thing that happens is that she doesn't respond and you can move on knowing that you gave it a shot.
     


  12. Connemara

    Connemara [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jST2Sv63WQ']

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    Let me say this: I do think she was sincere about liking me. But I also got the feeling that she was trying hard to justify it. "You're just so much younger than me" (not really; I'm 23, she is 30), "We work together" (we don't; we work for the same branch of government but have never/will never interact professionally), blah blah blah.

    I dunno what to do.
     


  13. Piobaire

    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    OJFC. That's $45 a person? :rolleyes:
     


  14. Rambo

    Rambo Stylish Dinosaur

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  15. Connemara

    Connemara [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jST2Sv63WQ']

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    She told me this on-and-off thing has been going on for a year. It's some guy that she's known for a long time, her family knows him, et al. But she told me at the end of the night that "I do want to try this (relationship)" and that she needed time. Of course that could be bullshit...
     


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