Don't know where to begin. There's this 30 yr. old broad I met last weekend. Things went very well...met at a bar, ended up at her place on the first evening. Went to a concert on Sunday. Lots of chemistry, passion, mutual interests. On Sunday night after the show, she told me "You know I am kind of seeing someone, right? I don't want to take things too fast." That was in response to my idea of a dinner date this week. So I said, I'll leave it alone. Let's see what happens. Tuesday comes. She texts and wants to go to dinner. Good development right? We decide on a very nice place (which is only affordable because this is restaurant week) and went there tonight. Dinner was great. Fantastic rapport, the same chemistry, lots of hand-holding at the table and kissing on the walk to the car. We got to her place and went in for a coup[le more glasses of wine and conversation. Things got hot and heavy on the couch. I said, "let's go lay down." She agreed and we went to her room, where she promptly said, "No street clothes!" and removed my lovely Brooks OCBD. We're in bed, fooling around a little bit, and her phone buzzes. She checks it. A solid minute of anxious texting ensues. And then this. "Would you really hate me if I asked you to leave?" I kind of just ummm'd for 30 seconds. How the fuck do you respond to that? I said something like, "Are you serious? What is going on?" Girl: "This guy I've been kind of seeing wants to come over. What do I say?" Conne: "....say whatever you need to. Tell him not to come, I'm here." Girl: "*sigh*....OK, OK, I'll do that." Very awkward minute or two. Kiss a little bit, phone buzzes again, more frantic texting. She then starts going on about how she is in this off again, on again relationship from which she has trouble getting out of. I, stupidly and like a fucking coward, said I understand. Girl said she likes me so much, blah blah blah, but I'm so much younger. I told her she was making excuses and she got kind of frustrated. Again, like I a little bitch, I backed down and said "Oh you're right I'm being too harsh." After this Girl said she wants to try a relationship, but feels trapped. I told her I felt very used and that I was leaving. She said she wants to see me again and will be in touch. I feel like I got walked all over. Blew $90 on a dinner during which she did not ONCE mention this other man. And did not ONCE mention him during our hour of conversation and kissing and wine on the couch. I've never felt so awful after a date. This is just...ugh.