As a fairly new member, I am very careful about what I ask and post. I haven't been roasted like some. I find some members' comments to be downright rude and insensitive. I guess my approach is, if I don't have something of value to add, I will just remain quiet. If I don't like the question, think it is stupid or redundant, before I jump in to harangue someone, I remember what my Mother used to say,"if you can't find something good to say, don't say anything at all." Now, if someone has asked an opinion regarding their dress, it is fair game to give them an honest opinion, but it can be done in a professional and considerate manner.