I dated this girl off and on for about 3 years. More off than on. Broke my heart twice. Most amazing body I had ever seen. On film or not. Her body was sick. Something a porn star pays for but hers was all natural. When we dated the first time she was 22 and I was 28. That age difference was too much for her. A couple years later, I let her get close to me again and the age difference freaked her out again and she broke my heart a second time. Fast forward 2 more years. Now she's pursuing me. The smoking never bothered me before but then I thought, "no way do I want to get serious with someone who chooses to poison herself everyday and do her best to age at a much faster rate than I will." So, I put the breaks on and said I wouldn't get serious with someone who smoked and told her we could still hang out but we couldn't really date. She quit. Not kidding. We just celebrated our 4 year wedding anniversary.