Is smoking a dating dealbreaker for you?

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  1. merkur

    merkur Senior member

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    alliswell Senior member

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    No. But it would be, longer term.
     
  3. edinatlanta

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    All things being equal, is smoking a dealbreaker for you even if a girl is otherwise ridiculously hot and has a great personality? [​IMG]

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    Went out with a chick from wk last Thurs. First time. She smokes and actually said that I look like someone that is against it. Doesn't really bother me unless they reak of it!
     
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    mordecai Immoderator

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    deal breaker. i can not tolerate a non-smoker.
     
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    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    Yup, deal breaker. I had an ex who smoked, I would have broken up with her much faster if she hadn't quit.
     
  7. Szeph el raton

    Szeph el raton Senior member

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    Earlier I wasn't really caring about it. But in retrospective it's so disgusting to kiss a smoker in the morning that I wouldn't want to date another one.

    But if I fall in love with one, meh, so be it.
     
  8. milosz

    milosz Senior member

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    (day 4 of not smoking... again)

    It's been so long since I kissed a smoker while I'm a non-smoker, I can't remember whether it bothers me or not. My sense of smell is sort of terrible, so as long as they're not constantly reeking of bar and smoke, that element probably wouldn't bother me.

    But as someone getting serious about quitting for good, I doubt I could date a smoker without starting back up myself so for now it's a dealbreaker.
     
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    Harold falcon Senior member

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    It still kind of turns me on.

    And I'm a non-smoker.
     
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    Yes unless she is ass hot and very cool. The breath just kills me.
     
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    Yes unless she is ass hot and very cool. The entire odor just kills me.

    FTFY
     
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    All things being equal, is smoking a dealbreaker for you even if a girl is otherwise ridiculously hot and has a great personality? [​IMG]

    It depends on how often she smokes. I find girls who smoke a little (socially) to be sexy, but a pack a day every day is not. I voted no though.

    I can't stand girls who get grossed out when around cigarette smoke. But then I smoke when partying so...
     
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    I find girls who smoke a little (socially) to be sexy

    I kind of always wondered where is the link between this two things... can anybody explain it to me? Do you, guys really consider smoking to be sexy? [​IMG]
     
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    Girls who smoke go to poke.

    BTW Merkur is the worst thread creator, EVER.
     
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