is it so strange for a guy to want to cuddle?

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  1. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Man, I used to use that line to get chicks in bed with me. I thought I'd never actually find a man who believes in it.

    Not that there's anything wrong with you, your girl just isn't the cuddling kind.



    She use to be more of a sweet girl before I started talking about my California dreams- now she's like ice in some ways..but still expects me to be a sex machine [​IMG] (hey- watch it Dakota!

    I try to plan nice surprises for her- but they only end with the usual conclusion [​IMG]

    ..really I don't know what is so wrong with this girl (or me- i'm starting to think that I should give up on cuddling [​IMG]
     
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    Adopt an affectionate dog. Dogs are better cuddlers than people anyway.
     
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    What are these California dreams?
     
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    Quirk Senior member

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    She use to be more of a sweet girl before I started talking about my California dreams- now she's like ice in some ways..but still expects me to be a sex machine [​IMG] (hey- watch it Dakota!

    I try to plan nice surprises for her- but they only end with the usual conclusion [​IMG]

    ..really I don't know what is so wrong with this girl (or me- i'm starting to think that I should give up on cuddling [​IMG]


    Maybe she's freaked out by your dreams and is shutting down emotionally to protect herself.
     
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    Adopt an affectionate dog. Dogs are better cuddlers than people anyway.
    They are, however, smelly. Adopt an affectionate cat. The creature in your avatar is quite handsome.
     
  6. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Adopt an affectionate dog. Dogs are better cuddlers than people anyway.


    Maybe you are right..but are they good listeners ?
     
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    wilson brother Senior member

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    What are these California dreams?

    They are to go to California and play bass guitar in a band..or maybe be a radio DJ.. if I have to for money I can always act in commercials [​IMG]

    Quirk-

    maybe shes freaked out about this..but I always try to include her in my dreams..and only ask in exchange for her to support whats in my heart..

    maybe she's not ready for the California lifestyle [​IMG] ..but I still have time to convince her.


    -Danny Wilson
     
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    Don't want this to sound nasty but she's probaly tired of hearing about it.
     
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    montecristo#4 Senior member

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    You have a relationship reversal situation here.

    You need to take action and do what women do to us when we don't want to cuddle -- cut her off from sex! That will show her who's in charge and get the cuddling back in full force.
     
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    Maybe you are right..but are they good listeners ?

    dogs aren't good listeners.

    are women? [​IMG]
     
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    I nominate this for most bizarre thread ever.

    In your girlfriend's defense, I can kind of understand why she doesn't want to sit there cuddling and listening to your problems.
     
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    In your girlfriend's defense, I can kind of understand why she doesn't want to sit there cuddling and listening to your problems.


    [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
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    acidboy Senior member

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    They are to go to California and play bass guitar in a band..or maybe be a radio DJ.. if I have to for money I can always act in commercials [​IMG]


    -Danny Wilson


    danny wilson,

    please sate my curiosity. just where are you exactly, and how old are you?
     
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    You need to take action and do what women do to us when we don't want to cuddle -- cut her off from sex! That will show her who's in charge and get the cuddling back in full force.


    *whirrrrrrrrr.......*
     
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    You have a relationship reversal situation here.

    You need to take action and do what women do to us when we don't want to cuddle -- cut her off from sex! That will show her who's in charge and get the cuddling back in full force.


    This might be good advice..but I don't know if its the same to cuddle with a person who doesn't want to cuddle back..I think i'll try this just to see the result.

    Maybe she'll stop all cuddling until sex returns [​IMG] and it will be official cold war [​IMG]
     

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