is it so strange for a guy to want to cuddle?

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  1. DNW

    DNW Senior member

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    And you are complaining about this?

    Hear! Hear!
     


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    stach Senior member

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    Ok..but I wanted to cuddle and talk about some things that were worrying me...at night she only wants to have sex [​IMG] (sorry this is private) and go to sleep [​IMG] .. the same in the morning

    Sounds like it's time for a heart to heart talk. Maybe she feels smothered?
     


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    Ambulance Chaser Senior member

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    I told her guys need to cuddle too..but she pretend like she didn't hear me and just left to do her girl things.
    I hate to be the one to ask this question, but do you hear a buzzing sound coming from the bathroom afterward?
     


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    I hate to be the one to ask this question, but do you hear a buzzing sound coming from the bathroom afterward?
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    lawyerdad Senior member

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    Were not married..so I don't have the right to exchange her [​IMG]
    Some people would reach the exact opposite conclusion from your premise . . .
     


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    Mr. Checks Senior member

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    This is again a rather American phobia, and to an extent Anglo. Continental European cultures are quite touchy what with the cliched French double-kiss, etc. You can also see men linking arms when walking together.

    Are you an advisor to the President?
     


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    Are you an advisor to the President?
    I certainly hope not.
     


  8. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Sounds like it's time for a heart to heart talk. Maybe she feels smothered?

    If she feels smothered..then why does she get so angry when I talk about my California dreams and.. tell me I should think about getting married?
     


  9. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    And you are complaining about this?

    I am complaining about this because I don't want to be used for only sex..I need something more like to talk and cuddle- to share my problems all the night through..

    do you really think its so much to ask of my girl [​IMG] ??




    -Danny Wilson
     


  10. DNW

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    I don't want to be used for only sex..I need something more like to talk and cuddle- to share my problems all the night through..

    Man, I used to use that line to get chicks in bed with me. I thought I'd never actually find a man who believes in it.

    Not that there's anything wrong with you, your girl just isn't the cuddling kind.
     


  11. stach

    stach Senior member

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    She doesn't sound very nice but the sex sounds great!
     


  12. chicagobull

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    Cuddling is nice and al, but I propose a 10 minute limit man-law to cuddling post-coitus, unless you are able to fall asleep in that position, in which case an extension can be granted.

    You want to cuddle and talk about your hopes/dreams/problems? And she wants to have a lot of sex, and then pass out? No offense, but it sounds like she definately wears the pants in this relationship.
     


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    Dakota rube Senior member

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    No offense, but it sounds like she definately wears the pants in this relationship.
    Technically speaking, I think it is quite clear that she seldom wears pants at all. [​IMG]
     


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    acidboy Senior member

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    She doesn't sound very nice but the sex sounds great!

    the bind that holds every other relationship together!
     


  15. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Technically speaking, I think it is quite clear that she seldom wears pants at all. [​IMG]


    Excuse me- please don't get so personal with a girl you don't know [​IMG]

    if I knew you were going to be a dirty guy I wouldn't of mentioned sex.
     


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