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is it so strange for a guy to want to cuddle?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by wilson brother, Aug 1, 2006.

  1. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    This sunday morning my girl said she didn't have time to cuddle..and that I shouldn't care so much because guys don't like that stuff anyway [​IMG] [​IMG]

    -I told her guys need to cuddle too..but she pretend like she didn't hear me and just left to do her girl things..I didn't say anything about this since because i'm feeling a some embarrasment..

    but I did tell my friend last night and he said that he doesn't like to cuddle with his girl..and I should be happy about this situation- lucky he we were drinking White Russians (thanks Versace.)..and he drank more than me so I don't think he'll remember this conversation.

    I got to ask the forum here..do you think that its strange for guys to need to cuddle too? -why should only girls need this? [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]



    -Danny Wilson (not a [​IMG] )
     


  2. Bouji

    Bouji Senior member

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    If it's my wife; yes I do like them. However, I detest the habit that ladies have of giving hugs as greetings and farewells - I do not particularly want to hug a business associate or casual acquaintance.
     


  3. Aaron

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    I've never really understood why Western socieities are so touch-phobic. It's a hug, it's not going to kill you. Occasionally they feel nice...

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  4. LabelKing

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    I've never really understood why Western socieities are so touch-phobic. It's a hug, it's not going to kill you. Occasionally they feel nice... A.
    This is again a rather American phobia, and to an extent Anglo. Continental European cultures are quite touchy what with the cliched French double-kiss, etc. You can also see men linking arms when walking together.
     


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    Bouji Senior member

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    I've never really understood why Western socieities are so touch-phobic. It's a hug, it's not going to kill you. Occasionally they feel nice...

    A.


    Emphasis on occasionally, the reason I do not like it is because I do not have intimate feelings for that person. I cannot understand why it is the cultural fash in London for ladies to hug. My friends' wives will always try to grab me rather than shake my hand; I don't like it if I see my wife hugging other men, in the same way she does not like it when she sees other women hugging me.
     


  6. Bouji

    Bouji Senior member

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    This is again a rather American phobia, and to an extent Anglo. Continental European cultures are quite touchy what with the cliched French double-kiss, etc. You can also see men linking arms when walking together.

    Yes, in London it is similar to Continental Europe, and by hug the kiss on both cheeks is included for female locals from this part of town becuase they think it is the fash.
     


  7. Tokyo Slim

    Tokyo Slim In Time Out

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    Danny Wilson, maybe some wife swapping is in order?

    [​IMG]
     


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    Bouji Senior member

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    I, for one, am very interested as to what these "girl things" are...
     


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    Danny Wilson, maybe some wife swapping is in order? [​IMG]
    could be your chance to nail one of Wilson Phillips
     


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    what kind of man says cuddling it's called SPOONING
     


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    Cuddle is a seated spoon. My advice is to get your spooning in at night.
     


  12. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Danny Wilson, maybe some wife swapping is in order?

    [​IMG]



    Were not married..so I don't have the right to exchange her [​IMG]
     


  13. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Cuddle is a seated spoon. My advice is to get your spooning in at night.

    Ok..but I wanted to cuddle and talk about some things that were worrying me...at night she only wants to have sex [​IMG] (sorry this is private) and go to sleep [​IMG] .. the same in the morning [​IMG] .. and go to do her girl things [​IMG]

    Bouji-

    I don't have any idea what these girl things are..I think its talking with her girl friends over tea..[​IMG]



    -Danny Wilson
     


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    Bouji Senior member

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    Ok..but I wanted to cuddle and talk about some things that were worrying me...at night she only wants to have sex (sorry this is private) [​IMG] and go to sleep [​IMG] .. the same in the morning [​IMG] .. and go to do her girl things [​IMG]

    Bouji-

    I don't have any idea what these girl things are..I think its talking with her girl friends over tea..[​IMG]



    -Danny Wilson


    In response to the 1st part of your post, this sounds odd for a woman. I tend to want what your partner wants, whilst she wants to talk etc...[​IMG]

    In respose to your reply to me, tell her, I drink tea, I talk, I DRINK TEA AND TALK, does this make me a girl? [​IMG]
     


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    at night she only wants to have sex and go to sleep .. the same in the morning and go to do her girl things

    And you are complaining about this?
     


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