Hi T&O, you may find yourself creating a new narrative for yourself here. Happy to assist.Hello SF, I am a mechanical engineering masters student at Tufts University, currently researching Aerospace Engineering and Autonomous systems, and will be pursuing my Ph.D afterwards. I am also a Software Engineer tech lead (prefer to leave my company anonymous). I come from a traditional southern preppy family. As a black sheep nerd who used to distance myself from our history of sailing, golfing, country clubs, brunch, suits, and station wagons, I recently realized that I loved my families history, despite it's problematic origins, and I wanted to jump back on board and continue the preppy traditions of my family, firstly by learning how to dress. I spent much of my time focusing on school, and decided I can spend more time on lifestyle and style.