Yeah, you just happened to be chosen to get grossly obese. I mean, you had to grossly overeat or else you wouldn't be able to build your career. That makes total sense. Those thin people with long hours at a desk job and familial obligations were blessed by the gods. well, it isn't that simple, but I also wouldn't say that it is a level field. we all have differnces in our bodies. I made choices that made my obese, I am not going to try to say differently. but I don't know that many middle aged thin people who don't work very very hard at it, and those that don't have to work that hard at it you can see have genes that help them out. go to a gym at 5-6 pm and talk to the people who work out then, who have kids. see how much time they get to spend with their kids during the week. everything comes at a cost.