I don't want to work with my girls father

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  1. wilson brother

    wilson brother Senior member

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    Hey guys-

    my girls father offered me to work in his company..she thinks that would be great for our future. I'm feeling like this is the wrong idea for me [​IMG] because my dream is so different..

    if I take this job it could be like a jail..I like her family but i'm afraid about my freedom [​IMG]

    How can I say no to this offer without losing her..and the relationship with her father too? That guy doesn't care anything about California [​IMG] he's not even a warm guy [​IMG] after 3 whiskeys.



    -Danny Wilson
     


  2. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red "Mr. Fashionista"

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  3. sho'nuff

    sho'nuff grrrrrrrr!!

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    there is no other alternative better than just plain up front tell them you aspire to do something else and but thankfully, decline his offer. be plain up front, courteous and truthful.
    it may be hard , but people do respect this. hopefully your girl will agree and respect your decision as well. good luck.
     


  4. hopkins_student

    hopkins_student Senior member

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    That guy doesn't care anything about California
    Your point? Perhaps the most annoying thing I've encountered in Californians is their belief that California is the be all and end all, which really couldn't be farther from the truth in this East Coast country of ours. But to answer your question, if it isn't in line with your life goals don't do it. You could also take this opportunity to re-evaluate your life goals.
     


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    There's a great future in plastics.
     


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    blackplatano Senior member

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    If you will lose her just because you don't take a job that's wrong for you anyway, then how does she love you?
     


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    lawyerdad Senior member

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    This has the makings of a great movie. You challenge your girl's dad to a surf-off. If he wins, you'll go to work for the company. If you win, he pays for you and your girl to travel to California. And you know whose music would provide the soundtrack . . .
     


  8. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red "Mr. Fashionista"

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    This has the makings of a great movie. You challenge your girl's dad to a surf-off. If he wins, you'll go to work for the company. If you win, he pays for you and your girl to travel to California. And you know whose music would provide the soundtrack . . .

    But there's a twist in the plot when it's discovered too late that the Beach Boys are clandestinely working for an international ring of terrorists headed up by the Kim Jong Il character from Team America.

    So even though Wilson Brother wins the surf-off and meets his idols, he gets swept up in the sinister undercurrent of international terrorism when the Beach Boys blackmail him into planting a bomb under Huntington pier set to detonate during a big surf contest.

    The only way he can get out of it is to surf big Mavericks (huge, cold, and sharky) on an old, dinged-up, obsolete single-fin from the 70s with a broken nose. Can he do it?

    The suspense is killing me!
     


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    Dakota rube Senior member

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    Nantucket, I just sold your post to a movie producer friend of mine. Your check will be in the mail. I got you four points. [​IMG]
     


  10. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red "Mr. Fashionista"

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    Nantucket, I just sold your post to a movie producer friend of mine. Your check will be in the mail. I got you four points. [​IMG]

    Cool! Now I can realize my dream of moving to Beverly Hills and driving around in a Lamborghini and dating Paris Hilton! [​IMG]
     


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    Toiletduck Senior member

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  12. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red "Mr. Fashionista"

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    paris hilton?

    Good lord, I'm joking! I've never dreamed of any such thing in my life.
     


  13. acidboy

    acidboy Senior member

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    Your point? Perhaps the most annoying thing I've encountered in Californians is their belief that California is the be all and and all, which really couldn't be farther from the truth in this East Coast country of ours.

    But to answer your question, if it isn't in line with your life goals don't do it. You could also take this opportunity to re-evaluate your life goals.


    he's not from california. i think he is just interested in cultural learnings of california for make benefit glorious nation of Kazakhstan
     


  14. denimdestroyedmylife

    denimdestroyedmylife Big Winner

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    There's a great future in plastics.
    hahahahahahahahahaha!
     


  15. Nantucket Red

    Nantucket Red "Mr. Fashionista"

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    he's not from california. i think he is just interested in cultural learnings of california for make benefit glorious nation of Kazakhstan

    Wilson Brother is from Kazakhstan? The only information available on his profile is that his shoe width is D.
     


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