In this case, taking, though I'm sure she wouldn't have given if I asked. I don't know what the fuck Chinese guys are doing in bed but they should be fucking ashamed of being so bad at it. I feel ya. I am a big fan of giving. Mebbe you was just bad and she was like "omg no please stop"??? Even worse than that is girls that claim to love giving and fucking suck at it. Tell me about it. Getting a bad BJ feels like such a waste of time. Especially with the random tooth thrown in too.