I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Matt, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    Is she your girlfriend or not? Cause in this thread you kinda made it sound like you didn't really care, were ready to move on for college, wanted to date Red Cross chick, etc. Methinks in real life you were probably more whipped.
     


  2. Boston Tweed

    Boston Tweed Senior member

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    The crazy girl tried to kill herself today. Over dosed on her anti depressants. Don't really know what to do. I went to the hospital to see her and she wants to go on holiday. I have the money and everything, but I don't know if its a good idea.

    Not to be the "mean guy" here but a holiday doesn't tend to get someone over being suicidal. Unless she's ready for a healing process (which sounds like a big if) with effective therapy (which requires brutal honest and sometimes emotional pain to get better) and unless you are ready to support her throughout the process you are likely setting yourself up for more pain later. Just my $0.02 and I wish you the best of luck (and I'm obviously happy to talk on PM).

    Good luck, and let us know how it goes.
     


  3. fuji

    fuji Senior member

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    She's not my girlfriend no. We sleep together and things have been better between us recently but we're not a couple or anything. I wrote I didn't like the red cross girl and I liked her better. Its not like I can just ignore her now that she tried to kill herself. Yeah im more then happy to support her for a while, I've known her for a long time and we were friends for a while before we got together, but im not abandoning her and I'll do what I can to make sure she's better.
     


  4. uNiCoRnPriNcEsSx

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    yea you can. get away. last time imma tell u dis.
     


  5. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    She's not my girlfriend no. We sleep together and things have been better between us recently but we're not a couple or anything. I wrote I didn't like the red cross girl and I liked her better. Its not like I can just ignore her now that she tried to kill herself. Yeah im more then happy to support her for a while, I've known her for a long time and we were friends for a while before we got together, but im not abandoning her and I'll do what I can to make sure she's better.

    hm...
     


  6. otc

    otc Senior member

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    girl needs therapy not a boyfriend--in fact I would suggest that she needs some time *without* attempting to carry on a relationship.
     


  7. robinsongreen68

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    The crazy girl tried to kill herself today. Over dosed on her anti depressants. Don't really know what to do. I went to the hospital to see her and she wants to go on holiday. I have the money and everything, but I don't know if its a good idea.
    did you see the scar i posted on the previous page? that's the result of taking crazy suicidal girls on holiday. especially if as you seem to indicate, you're not really that into her anyway. on holiday you'll be forced to be with her 24/7, just an impossible situaiton when somebody has the problems that she appears to have. i just think its a recipe for disaster
     


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    I may be joining this thread shortly. My girlfriend is being a real cunt. She's cute but not cute enough to be a total bitch all the time. It's probably just PMS but I'm too alpha to deal with that shit.
     


  9. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    The crazy girl tried to kill herself today. Over dosed on her anti depressants. Don't really know what to do. I went to the hospital to see her and she wants to go on holiday. I have the money and everything, but I don't know if its a good idea.

    Don't know if it's a good idea? Don't know if it's a good idea? Take me on holiday, that's a better idea.
     


  10. shellshock

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    Don't know if it's a good idea? Don't know if it's a good idea? Take me on holiday, that's a better idea.

    +1 fuji is it that hard to find a non-psycho to take on holiday?
     


  11. Stazy

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    +1 fuji is it that hard to find a non-psycho to take on holiday?

    I imagine it's more an issue of finding someone that will put up with him.
     


  12. fuji

    fuji Senior member

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    I imagine it's more an issue of finding someone that will put up with him.

    I don't see how anything I've wrote implies im some horrible prick who is insuferable. Yes I wrote about my bad break up with her a couple of months ago, break ups do tend to be bad when someone tries to get a drug dealer to kill you, not really my fault she's not stable. For the last couple months things have been going well with her because I've been treating her well and being nice to her, I've never wrote about doing anything bad to her. I've known she's not mentally stable since the summer so why the fuck would I do anything bad to her. It wasn't me who mad her try to kill herself it was her parents, I took her out for dinner a few hours before she over dosed and she was fine, it was her parents who set her off. As I wrote before things have been going well with her and I've known her for nearly 2 years now so it would be fairly inconsiderate to disappear from her life right after she tried to kill herself, not that I even want to. Can you actually read what I wrote before you be a prick about what is really a very serious situation.
     


  13. APK

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    Uh, because...

    now all I care about is getting my clothes back from her and making her feel shit because I realised how absolutely great I was to her and how much of a bitch she was.

    I think I was only with her because she is very good looking, but she is miserable. Took her virginity though and I'm getting on her friend now so its all good though.

    That's fine you care about her and all, but your first dozen or so contributions to this thread painted a picture of a miserable, possibly dangerous person that you only wanted around for sex. Don't get upset with people who are going to question why, after saying such things, you're still communicating with this girl.

    No one is suggesting you abandon her now when she's arguably at her lowest point. But this is a recent happening at the tail end of a three-month stretch where you portrayed her as a wretched individual. Either you care and want to be with this girl or the bulk of your posts in this thread were just a bunch of faux alpha male horseshit.
     


  14. Rambo

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    I don't see how anything I've wrote implies im some horrible prick
    I don't think anybody thinks you're a horrible prick. More likely, they think you're a teenage twat who doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. At least, that's how you come off in most of your posts. Others, though, make you sound very mature for your age.
     


  15. fuji

    fuji Senior member

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    Uh, because...





    That's fine you care about her and all, but your first dozen or so contributions to this thread painted a picture of a miserable, possibly dangerous person that you only wanted around for sex. Don't get upset with people who are going to question why, after saying such things, you're still communicating with this girl.

    No one is suggesting you abandon her now when she's arguably at her lowest point. But this is a recent happening at the tail end of a three-month stretch where you portrayed her as a wretched individual. Either you care and want to be with this girl or the bulk of your posts in this thread were just a bunch of faux alpha male horseshit.


    She is a horrible and miserable girl, and she is dangerous because of her dad. Over the last few months she got lots of therapy and medication and that helped her a lot so she did become much nicer, which is when I started seeing her again and things were going well, but yeah without medication and all that stuff she is exactly as I described her. Even if she was still being a nasty bitch I can't just run away now that she tried to kill herself, thats fairly insensitive.
     


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