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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Matt, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    Mellow hang in there! i'm sure it's no consolation, but if you're ever in NYC hit a brother up, we'll drink a brew and share sordid tales of our broken relationships and tortured souls.
     
  2. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    You made the right move, man. Feel good about that at least.

    im tryin man, i really am
     
  3. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    mark im confused.. did you ahve sex with her tonight?
     
  4. Eason

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    Called it quits with crazy girl. After taking her out for lunch, spending about $100 on her on drinks and expensive little pastries and bringing her punting and just having her act like a bitch and try to get me to buy drugs the whole time and saying how shit me taking her out is. I told her I can't do this any more, she's too emotional draining and is making me feel like shit and I don't want to see her any more. She's sending me some crazy messages on fb, just not gonna reply, I can't take her craziness any more. Also she was saying she doesn't think we should have sex any more and as that was an important factor of the relationship so it couldn't have lasted long after that. Ill get some crazy shit from her in about 2 weeks saying how depressed she is, bitch needs to cheer up. She's been refusing medication and therapy for the last few months and she's just gone off the rails.

    Well done lad
     
  5. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    mark im confused.. did you ahve sex with her tonight?

    yes, and made her orgasm like crazy. im sure shes thinking about that now too.
     
  6. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    it's not over. gaurantee it.
     
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    yes, and made her orgasm like crazy. im sure shes thinking about that now too.
    It's tough when you can't tell if you're cumming or going.
     
  8. Dakota rube

    Dakota rube Senior member

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    It's tough when you can't tell if you're cumming or going.

    hahahaha
     
  9. kungapa

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    So I finally did it, said my peace, and walked out on her.

    I'm literally in the cab for 10 minutes and I get a text, "I love you so much and i'm so sorry"

    I dont really, couple of minutes later, "You said this would take time, but you're forcing it on me I can't do that."

    Now I just got home, and early in the night, we fucked, and called her by a petname, and then I just asked what her favorite nickname was, that I had for her, she said -----

    This text I just got "babygirl is a nice one too."

    didnt reply though, im not going to pick up her calls or answer her texts. at this point im really ready to focus on myself and move on...i think i am at least. right now i dont really feel anything, hasnt really hit me. im sure it will soon enough, and its going to fucking suck, but such is life.

    serious shoutout to everyone in this thread for all the advice, now that i look back on everything, it really was good stuff.


    It goes up and down. For now, the best is for you to move on. At least you have taken the initiative, and you are the one empowered walking out with her still feeling it was her mistakes that led to you guys separating - an ideal position, much better than the victim hood you were reveling in before.


    it's not over. gaurantee it.

    +1. But don't pin your hopes on it though.
     
  10. Rambo

    Rambo Senior member

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    randallr says get a running start and bang some strange.
    Best advice in this thread so far.
    It's tough when you can't tell if you're cumming or going.
    [​IMG]
     
  11. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    Fuck this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

    I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

    Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.
     
  12. Teger

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    as I said it's not through

    you'll see her within the week
     
  13. kwilkinson

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    If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name. [​IMG]
     
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    Fuck this is not easy, I want to call her, speak to her, see her, but i'm really going to stay strong and resist.

    I'm a little worried though, because I kind of made it a point throughout this whole thing, that if we break up I don't want anything to do with her, and wont pick up her calls, answer her texts etc. I kind of regret that, because what if she wants to call me, but wont because of that...?

    Going on a date tonight though, hopefully that goes well.


    Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?
     
  15. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    Wow. That was fast. Got a buncha bitches in your stable?

    I always keep a couple on the backburner, you know how it is.

    Speaking to her on the phone yesterday just made me depressed though, nothing like the girl, I need to stop comparing.

    I'm really thinking of cancelling, but I know I shouldnt, it's good for me to go out, and this girl is great looking, and a good person in and of herself. Plus I could probably bone.

    BLADHADFS
     
  16. MarkI

    MarkI Senior member

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    If you get lucky with this first date after the breakup, don't make the same mistake i did and call her by your ex's name. [​IMG]

    ahahaha, i will not do this


    as I said it's not through

    you'll see her within the week



    I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.
     
  17. Teger

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    my predictions:

    large chance you'll cancel the date

    if you go, won't finish

    the issue is you're not over this girl. compare your posts to mellowfellows.
     
  18. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    ahahaha, i will not do this





    I'm not counting on anything, but I hope.



    your thinking right now is 'maybe if i give her the space she wanted she'll realize how much she msises me and come back to me'

    maybe, maybe not. but whatever happens you still don't have any closure or finality.

    that's why it's not over
     
  19. Neo_Version 7

    Neo_Version 7 Senior member

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    Teger don't need no romance mentors.
     
  20. Teger

    Teger Senior member

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    yo we should start maknig paypal bets on what happens. marki you ok with that?
     

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