^^ I know you how you feel. It's best to move on. Never doubt yourself and never look back. Live your life and if the you re-connect you do and if you don't , you don't. There is no need to beat yourself up. The Goat and I have been split for close to a year, now. The hurt is still fresh but if I didn't let go and move on I would be in such an awful place. I don't wish that on anyone. Share your story, Mauro! Being totally serious here. I'm a nosy son of a bastard and always what went down. do you delete the pictures of you together on fb? we are still friends, i ended it awhile back but we still talk online and text. we were together for a little over a year, but the last 3 months were long distance, and that just reaffirmed the feelings i'd been having about wanting to focus on myself and figuring out my next step after graduating. i made it clear that we weren't gonna get back together. but still kinda seems like a fuck you to up and delete all the pictures, no? i'm kinda on the fence about this one. I only had a handful with the aforementioned ex on FB and most were courtesy of third-party sources. So they're still there. She never untagged herself, which I guess is about all she could've done to distance herself from there. I did notice many, many months ago that she went back and deleted one of her old profile pictures of us together, which I thought was a bit odd. Splitting is one thing, but that struck me as trying to erase the past. I never untagged myself or deleted a couple of my old default pictures with us together because it seemed unnecessary, since you'd only come across them if you were digging/FB stalking. There's a reason there's the saying, "best friends become strangers." It sucks but it's just the way it is. I know you want to be a good guy and still be there for her, but it's just not worth it and will only delay the inevitable. Nil is dropping the best knowledge in this thread. Not to say I've taken it, but he's absolutely right.