I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

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  1. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    [​IMG] It had to be done. She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it. Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that. It's still sad though.
    I saw that on facebook. Sorry, buddy. You did the mature thing, though. Sometimes love isn't enough.
     


  2. Piobaire

    Piobaire Not left of center?

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    Sorry to hear about it. I hate to hear about people splitting up, as I'm a sucker for a happy ending. But if you're so sure it's the right thing, better sooner than later.

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  3. appolyon

    appolyon Senior member

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    Matt sorry to hear it ended. She seemed lovely when you were both in Melbourne, but if you were both pulling in opposite directions than it makes sense to put an end to it.

    Remember, time wounds all heels.
     


  4. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    i broke up with my girl last year after 5 and a half years. the hardest part was knowing how much it was hurting her. sometimes you almost wish they didnt care.
     


  5. Eason

    Eason Bicurious Racist

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    i broke up with my girl last year after 5 and a half years. the hardest part was knowing how much it was hurting her. sometimes you almost wish they didnt care.

    Tru dog, true. I knew you had a heart of gold. <3
     


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    Joffrey Senior member

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    I don't know about you guys but I'm looking forward to some scandalous entries in the What did you do last night thread.
     


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    West24 Senior member

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    I don't know about you guys but I'm looking forward to some scandalous entries in the What did you do last night thread.

    with your mom, snap!
     


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    West24 Senior member

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    Tru dog, true. I knew you had a heart of gold. <3

    [​IMG] i do, i will show you more when i come to korea.
     


  9. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    Now youcan live your gayness freely !
    don't let the Rolex nick you on the way out
     


  10. SField

    SField Senior member

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    [​IMG]

    It had to be done.

    She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

    Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

    It's still sad though.


    That sounds like mine. My longterm GF, who I actually really really liked, broke up because I wouldn't marry her (it's actually the main reason I left new york). We just didn't have the same kind of plans. It's one of those things that had to be done.

    Take some time to just do stupid shit. If you try and be mature, dealing with it head on, you'll just end up completely wasted, 100 miles from where you live in nothing but one sock, lying next to a naked women's tennis player from university of georgia, and not know how you got there.

    Sorry that happened man, but I hope it was for the best.
     


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    nootje Senior member

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    sorry to hear that, but it sounds like you made a well calculated decision..
     


  12. Etienne

    Etienne Senior member

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    Sorry to hear about that. Things seem surprisingly civil between the two of you, which is always a small consolation.
     


  13. Thomas

    Thomas Senior member

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    Dude, sorry to hear this but it sounds like you're taking charge of your well-being which is good to hear.

    Similar to what SField said, after a relationship ended I would always take time to do the things that she hated or wouldn't do with me - NO NOT THAT - I mean play some golf, visit strip bars, scotch-and-cigars, what-have-you. Reclaim yourself, at least until the next one comes along.
     


  14. Berticus

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    Similar to what SField said, after a relationship ended I would always take time to do the things that she hated or wouldn't do with me - NO NOT THAT - I mean play some golf, visit strip bars, scotch-and-cigars, what-have-you. Reclaim yourself, at least until the next one comes along.

    what kind of girlfriend did you have? Sounds pretty controlling to me.

    Take some time to just do stupid shit. If you try and be mature, dealing with it head on, you'll just end up completely wasted, 100 miles from where you live in nothing but one sock, lying next to a naked women's tennis player from university of georgia, and not know how you got there.
    Personal experience?
     


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    Man Sfield I LOVE southern women. Apparently you do too.
     


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