I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Matt, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. mafoofan Jr.

    mafoofan Jr. Senior member

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    Aren't most Vietnamese buddhists anyhow?

    I like your style [email protected], right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.
     


  2. globetrotter

    globetrotter Senior member

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    sorry to hear that. It can't be easy. good luck.
     


  3. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    thanks guys. Was a strange morning...have been through my share of breakups, and mostly feel relief afterwards. This one I am feeling really nostalgic and everywhere-i-turn about it.

    Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
     


  4. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    Still, I know I did the right thing, just gonna take some time for the weirdness to subside.
    If you find yourself in Chicago, I'll help to drown your sorrows in a bottle of scotch.
     


  5. whacked

    whacked Senior member

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    I like your style [email protected], right before Christmas so you don't have to unload on a gift.

    Small timer.

    While any breakup sucks, I think you are the kinda guy to have made a solid decision on this.

    Still, I know I did the right thing

    +1 and good to hear.
     


  6. Connemara

    Connemara [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jST2Sv63WQ']

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    If you find yourself in Chicago, I'll help to drown your sorrows in a bottle of scotch.
    Wow kwilk, we didn't know you're in Chicago. Thanks for reminding us one more time. [​IMG]
     


  7. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    Wow kwilk, we didn't know you're in Chicago. Thanks for reminding us one more time. [​IMG]

    What's that, small timer?
     


  8. Connemara

    Connemara [URL='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jST2Sv63WQ']

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    What's that, small timer?
    Don't worry about it Chunk.
     


  9. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    get outta my mopin thread.

    Apologise both of you to me and to each other before I grossly abuse my powers in my frail state and time you both out.

    (I feel so much better now)
     


  10. manouche

    manouche Senior member

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    [​IMG]

    It had to be done.

    She's great, but it wasnt a relationship that was heading anywhere, so after a year and a half I put a stop to it.

    Just kinda eating into each other's futures if we keep going like that.

    It's still sad though.


    Now youcan live your gayness freely !
     


  11. BYucko

    BYucko Senior member

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    That sucks man.

    It's always weird when you break it off with someone who you've been talking to most days of the week, who you've told everything to, shared everything with, and now you guys can't talk or it'll be weird.
     


  12. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    so how long until you run into her and we have another crazy ex gf story?
     


  13. Fuuma

    Fuuma Franchouillard Modasse

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    Use this AWESOME source of advice to get a new one:
    http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=93155

    No offense but I don't understand that "we weren't getting anywhere" thing, in the long term no one is getting anywhere except a casket/urn. If you got out because you weren't happy/comfortable with something that's fine but vague notions of the future don't mean shit unless they materialize (say you want kids and she doesn't and it's tearing your couple apart). Still you have my sympathy, these situations are a weight to carry for a while.
     


  14. Matt

    Matt [email protected]

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    so how long until you run into her and we have another crazy ex gf story?

    Nah, she is very cool. Not the sort of volatile element with whom I would normally associate.

    Incidentally I ran into crazy ex #2 on Friday night. She hates me.

    No offense but I don't understand that "we weren't getting anywhere" thing, in the long term no one is getting anywhere except a casket/urn. If you got out because you weren't happy/comfortable with something that's fine but vague notions of the future don't mean shit unless they materialize (say you want kids and she doesn't and it's tearing your couple apart). Still you have my sympathy, these situations are a weight to carry for a while.

    Actually I think we both want the married n kids n things thing...just not with each other.
     


  15. Tokyo Slim

    Tokyo Slim In Time Out

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    Best of luck to you man.

    I'm still... not right... after my last one. I hope what little control you had over the situation helps you heal.
     


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