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I broke up with my gf (general breakup thread)

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Matt, Dec 21, 2008.

  1. lasbar

    lasbar Senior member

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    Like posting here??
     
  2. mr.orange

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    no, more like going to college full time, working part time, and hanging out with my gf. uggghhh.
     
  3. lasbar

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    That's a very tight schedule..

    I was lucky enough to have parents helping me during my studies..

    I was doing sports and chasing skirts..
     
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  4. mr.orange

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    what now? do you get rid of everything that reminds of you of her, or would that be immature?
     
  5. lasbar

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    Would be wise...
     
  6. gettoasty

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    I burned everything in my fireplace
     
  7. lasbar

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    Even the ex?
     
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    no

    she is forever burned into a piece of my soul

    OT: i actually burned everything that i kept in my "shoe box" this past weekend

    felt good i guess. not sure why i kept one for so long or why others do at all. bit of a relief /whatever feeling
     
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    I keep them, because sometime, somewhere there was a lot of emotional energy invested in whatever it is- I wouldn't want my shit thrown away like it was meaningless either. The caveat is, I hide them in deep, dark place where I usually end up forgetting about it anyway.


    I only knew them for a month or so early in the semester... They probably have their own clique crap, I certainly wouldn't depend on them as "real" or "good" friends.
     
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    :lol:


    I've had the urge to buy a shredder, but burning stuff just sounds way better. Plus, nothing really destroys like fire, so it's only appropriate.


    That sounds like a good plan. I've given my girlfriend so much cool stuff over the year, I would be sad if she decided to throw it all away because we broke up.
     
  11. gettoasty

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    i gave and bought ex a handful of useful things (kindle, 150gb external HD, etc.)


    what i was left with was a table lamp, piece of fence that is part of a dog/baby cage, moveable clothes rack, and misc. clothes, which i donated.
    over the course of the relationship, she bought random clothes/shoe, which i ended up donating/returning because it wasn't up to sf standards (0)

    keep telling myself i will eventually replace the table lamp and toss the fence.
    it really brings the 'lols' when i think about it in those terms.

    ^and when i said shoe box, it wasn't just the recent ex. i had things all the way back, 6+ years ago. burned it all in the fireplace.
     
  12. oneeightyseven

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    thats why I like that my gf buys me thom browne and margiela (0).
     
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    did you ever wear these articles of clothes in public?
     
  14. gettoasty

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    Yes

    They either fell apart or felt weird on my body. Eventually they ended up in the back of my closet until cleaning time and I just tossed them.
    I was dressed up in H&M
     
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    Wait, gettoasty, did your ex/'s know you liked SF-approved brands?

    I can't imagine most guys here having gf's who don't know they're into fashunz.
     
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    they know, but their tiny female brain cannot comprehend.
     
  17. gettoasty

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    she knew, but rather spend her money @ the mall. when i'm with a girl, i do not mind spoiling her, but it would be nice, at least 1 time out of the year, that i got treated out too. but therein lies the problem, don't spoil your girl. everything in moderation. and if it doesn't work out, [VIDEO][/VIDEO]
     
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  18. mr.orange

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    Will take that into consideration Toasty. I know what you mean and it's really sad because if you bring it up then it "doesn't count" because you had to tell her to do something. ugh. haha, is that a show? need to hulu that or something.
     
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    I wish girls that I dated would burn shit and move on like that, instead of annoying the piss out of me.
     
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    well you have to consider that we broke up in the summer and it only got cold enough for the fireplace now :lol:

    parks and recreation is funny, though a bit slow at times. dry humor mostly IMO
     

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