Ok, what if she pleads, and comes out with some torrent of a speech, she's sorry, she regrets all this, she made a mistake, she wants things to be how they were. Do I take her back? General opinions. I'm sure many (read: a majority of) posters here will tell you to move on and forget about her. Dump the bitch, so to speak. While I don't necessarily condone such actions, you should do what you feel is right at that moment. Disregard the past and forget about the future for a minute. Do what your heart tells you. I mean, sure we might joke around with you but I can see you really care about this girl. And I'm positive she cares about you too. Why else would she be running around, putting out fires, messaging you, calling you constantly? Because deep down, she feels for you the same way you feel about her. She merely conveys it differently. Not all of us handle emotions similarly after all. So, listen to what she has to say. Be kind. Be affectionate. Above all, be yourself. She'll appreciate that.