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How would you react in my situation?

Brosef

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Here we go.
I've been seeing this girl on and off for three years. Kinda went like this :
0-6 months : nothing happened
6-12 months : went out together
12-24 months : fucked
24-32 months : completely cut contact

Basically, the girl was crazy in love with me and I acted like an asshole. Cheated on her numerous times and used her. She's not much better though. When I broke up with her she got into another relationship 6 months later and I was still ********** with her (I remember once when her bf kept calling/texting her while I was pounding her ass violently before she started crying and I just got the **** out of there). Anyways, I'm just saying this to show that she's not the type of girl to be trusted. I guess I'm not the type of guy to be trusted when it comes to relationships neither, but hey, at least I don't ******* lie about it.

Here's the deal now, we start talking to each other randomly at the middle of the summer and she starts going about how she misses me and she can't see any other guys because she still has me in her mind and all. TBH, I was kind of thinking about her too. I'm not the kind of guy who's fond of relationships, partly because I tend to be a misanthropist asshole. I don't believe her when she says she hasn't seen guys since me except for her BF and, frankly, I don't give a flying ****. What pisses me off though is that she lies to my face about it.

Just a simple example : she goes on vacation with her best friend (which happens to be a guy) and the guy's friends as well. She claims she never had anything with the guy. The guy's friends leave and she stays only with the guy for three days and nothing happened? I mean, come on, I feel like slapping the ***** for lying that much about it.

I haven't said anything though. I just nodded but God does it piss me off. I know that if I confront her about it she's just going to deny and say I'm so paranoid and what not. She could cry over it, I'm not even kidding.

What sucks the most is that I really feel attached to this girl. I met so many different girls but I always ended up comparing them to her and leaving them. What to do?
 

HelloIDistance

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Originally Posted by Brosef
Basically, the girl was crazy in love with me and I acted like an asshole. Cheated on her numerous times and used her. She's not much better though. When I broke up with her she got into another relationship 6 months later and I was still ********** with her (I remember once when her bf kept calling/texting her while I was pounding her ass violently before she started crying and I just got the **** out of there). Anyways, I'm just saying this to show that she's not the type of girl to be trusted. I guess I'm not the type of guy to be trusted when it comes to relationships neither, but hey, at least I don't ******* lie about it.

Bro, mad props.
 

melwoesblvd

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sounds like she's wifey. go ahead and drive down to tiffanys bro
 

MetroStyles

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MarkI's obvious troll account is obvious.
 

Brosef

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Originally Posted by melwoesblvd
sounds like she's wifey. go ahead and drive down to tiffanys bro
lmao I was expecting this answer. I don't know why I'm so attracted to her after all her bs and lying... Maybe because she puts up with mine.

Originally Posted by MetroStyles
MarkI's obvious troll account is obvious.
pls go

Originally Posted by HelloIDistance
Bro, mad props.
lol
 

mkarim

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Originally Posted by Brosef
I remember once when her bf kept calling/texting her while I was pounding her ass violently before she started crying and I just got the **** out of there
Pictures or GTFO.
 

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As long as it's good up in there past the used part, keep seeing her. Since you're judging all others by her, it seems you are in serious state of PW.
 

Brosef

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Originally Posted by suitedcboy
As long as it's good up in there past the used part, keep seeing her. Since you're judging all others by her, it seems you are in serious state of PW.

Pw?
 

mkarim

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pseudonym

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Originally Posted by Brosef
Pw?

If you don't know what it is, you already are it.

It = ***** whipped


No, but honestly, just do a FWB thing.
 

Huntsman

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What to do? Stop being a moron.
 

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You're a ******* idiot, and so is she. Definitely pursue this.
 

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