How would you react in my situation?

[Brosef]

Originally Posted by RedScarf7

You're a ******* idiot, and so is she. Definitely pursue this.

Lol. The reason why I'm sticking around is that she was around in an important part of my life where I had serious family issues. She always was supportive and was very caring. I rarely show feelings but she knew what was up and I can't say she wasn't there for me at that time or any other when I needed it. I guess this is the *****-whipped explanation.

 

[BP348]

Originally Posted by Brosef

Just a simple example : she goes on vacation with her best friend (which happens to be a guy) and the guy's friends as well. She claims she never had anything with the guy. The guy's friends leave and she stays only with the guy for three days and nothing happened? I mean, come on, I feel like slapping the ***** for lying that much about it.

What makes you so sure she's lying about this? I know several people who have gone on vacation with a person of the opposite sex and nothing happened.

 

[Brosef]

Originally Posted by BP348

What makes you so sure she's lying about this? I know several people who have gone on vacation with a person of the opposite sex and nothing happened.

I had sex with her countless times while she had a boyfriend and the guy doesn't know to this day. Why should I trust her now? ...

 

[orlagu]

Don't you think it was because she loves you more than her boyfriend?
Btw you sound like a typical pathetic azn asshole.

 

[Brosef]

Originally Posted by orlagu

Don't you think it was because she loves you more than her boyfriend? Btw you sound like a typical pathetic azn asshole.
I don't know. No point in going out with her boyfriend then. Who knows if she pulled the same **** on him or not? Idk, man. You'd really trust her? And I'm not asian.

 

[intent]

Wife material.

 

[whiteslashasian]

Originally Posted by orlagu

Don't you think it was because she loves you more than her boyfriend?
Btw you sound like a typical pathetic azn asshole.

GTFO with this BS, it's common for all men you ******* dolt.

OP sounds like the story of Kunk.

 

[bigbris1]

Originally Posted by melwoesblvd

sounds like she's wifey. go ahead and drive down to tiffanys bro

Originally Posted by intent

Wife material.

These.

 

[Huntsman]

Originally Posted by BP348

What makes you so sure she's lying about this? I know several people who have gone on vacation with a person of the opposite sex and nothing happened.

Originally Posted by Brosef

I had sex with her countless times while she had a boyfriend and the guy doesn't know to this day. Why should I trust her now? ...

Originally Posted by orlagu

Don't you think it was because she loves you more than her boyfriend?
orlagu has a point. I agree. Don't you also feel complicit for ********** with her while she had a bf. You should. She may be willing to compromise herself in your favor in ways she would not for another. That is why what you are doing is called using her, for which you are blaming her. Rich.

Originally Posted by Brosef

I don't know. No point in going out with her boyfriend then. Who knows if she pulled the same **** on him or not?
No point? What, like maybe some vestige of commitment that you fail to provide? Figure out what you want, then try to live up to it yourself, before you go on asking another to. If you're just after the booty call, how can you complain? That's what you're getting. No strings except your own. If you're after something more serious, well, you should give that, too, so she can sever ties with her bf if that's what she, too, wants. ~H

 

[Brosef]

Originally Posted by Huntsman

orlagu has a point. I agree. Don't you also feel complicit for ********** with her while she had a bf. You should. She may be willing to compromise herself in your favor in ways she would not for another. That is why what you are doing is called using her, for which you are blaming her. Rich.



No point? What, like maybe some vestige of commitment that you fail to provide?

Figure out what you want, then try to live up to it yourself, before you go on asking another to. If you're just after the booty call, how can you complain? That's what you're getting. No strings except your own. If you're after something more serious, well, you should give that, too, so she can sever ties with her bf if that's what she, too, wants.

~H

Good post, I appreciate it, but I have difficulty trusting people. How do I know if she was only doing it because it was me or just because she's being a slut ? lol
I'm more looking to have something serious but I have some serious insecurities and major problems trusting people I need to take care of first, I guess.

 

[ter1413]

Put a ring on it!

 

[blairh]

Obviously you can never truly trust her. You are wasting your time with this girl (unless you just want to bang her). But if we are talking about dating her again, please, wake up.

You need to learn how to trust others. And you can only do that with a woman when you get to know her slowly. However if you are dating a woman and you ever catch her lying to you then immediately dump her and move on. You'll never be able to truly forgive or trust her in the future. I'm right.

 

[orlagu]

Originally Posted by whiteslashasian

GTFO with this BS, it's common for all men you ******* dolt.

OP sounds like the story of Kunk.
Well I am azn, and I see around me lots and lots of fellow azn males trying to ****/deflower their (wifey material) girlfriends then accusing the girls for being a slut/not able to stay virgin until marriage. Which is, I think, not too different from the OP's situation...

 

[Brosef]

Originally Posted by orlagu

Well I am azn, and I see around me lots and lots of fellow azn males trying to ****/deflower their (wifey material) girlfriends then accusing the girls for being a slut/not able to stay virgin until marriage. Which is, I think, not too different from the OP's situation...
I dont see how this is similar. I just have difficulty trusting a girl who cheated on her bf, that's all. If someone lies for you he'll lie against you

 

[MetroStyles]

Originally Posted by Brosef

I dont see how this is similar. I just have difficulty trusting a girl who cheated on her bf, that's all. If someone lies for you he'll lie against you

Newsflash bro: If a girl cheats on her bf to get with you, she isn't to be trusted. Bang her but all this wife-material stuff is people joaking. I hope you picked up on that.