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How to tell when two people in the office are sleeping together?

Ambulance Chaser

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1. Private Investigator
2. Blackmail
3. PROFIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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I don't really care per se who is doing who but I am trying to hone my instincts to these things as I see wealth in seeing things that are supposed to be hidden. That's mainly all I care about.
 

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Yep... your "friend" and "his" wife... gotcha
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Yep... your "friend" and "his" wife... gotcha

Nope, I don't have anyone to cheat on at the moment
 

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OP is a ******* idiot, I am glad people instilled some sense into him. Thanks SF.
 

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Originally Posted by forex
OP is a ******* idiot, I am glad people instilled some sense into him. Thanks SF.

Touchy Touchy
 

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You can tell when two people USED to be sleeping together when the girl appears to be a ***** for no reason to the guy and generally loses her ability to be socially normal around him.
 

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Originally Posted by MetroStyles
You can tell when two people USED to be sleeping together when the girl appears to be a ***** for no reason to the guy and generally loses her ability to be socially normal around him.

Do you work with Flambeur ?
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Do you work with Flambeur ?
Does not compute. Are you implying Flambeur has actually spent an intimate night with something other than an LBO model?
 

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It's hard to tell. But if they hangout outside of work chances are something is going on. When groups of co-workers go out together usually some ******* takes place between some of them.
 

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A lot of times, it's like a gut feeling. You know something is up but you just can't prove it. However, I am trying to find the concrete signs so that I can be certain of things. I mean this doesn't just apply to two co-workers ******* each other, it can only be about something going down in a company. Little hints that everyone should pick up one so one is not blindsided by sudden change or something unexpected.
 

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Originally Posted by Arrogant Bastard
I can't foresee a scenario where your delving into this, let alone attempting to do something about it, will end well for you or them. Just let it go.

That said, how can you tell? In my experience, it's been pretty easy to tell when two co-workers are sleeping together. They always hang out, to the point where it seems like they are joined at the hip. They have private in-jokes with one another that nobody else in the office gets. They don't work in the same department, and yet, they're always finding excuses to drop by each other's offices or cubes. At social outings, they always show up or leave together, and/or they spend the whole time in each other's company. Even in groups, their banter with one another is cutesy and flirtatious. Etc.

The old rule of thumb states that if two people seem like they're sleeping together, they usually are (or soon will be). People are notoriously bad at hiding their affections, especially when the relationship is new.


sometimes, not always. i was dating a girl in a different department for 4 months and no one had any idea. but we went out of our way not to be seen with each other.
 

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Save his secret. Use it should you need to threaten him in the future.

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Originally Posted by MetroStyles
You can tell when two people USED to be sleeping together when the girl appears to be a ***** for no reason to the guy and generally loses her ability to be socially normal around him.
Hey, that sounds just like me and my wife...
 

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when you're around him, always whip open doors and watch his reaction. If he gets scared he's either having an affair or he is just type of person who gets easily frightened
 

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