How to Not Get Caught Cheating?

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  1. sho'nuff

    sho'nuff grrrrrrrr!!

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    True story: I had been dating the woman who would become Mrs. Thomas for around six months when she went into the hospital for a test. They ended up nearly killing her and kept her for four months. I went to see her pretty well every day (twice a day on weekends), and around a month into her stay it occurred to me that it was very unlike me to be this devoted.

    Our ten-year anniversay is this month.


    Thomas that is so sweet. i love you buddy. that is devotion and commitment and i wish more of us was like that. happy anniversary
     
  2. lee_44106

    lee_44106 Senior member

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    Tru dat to all that's been said.

    Just don't cheat. It's not cool.

    Good for you Thomas; 10 years is considered an eternity nowadays.


    Remember what Paul Newman (may he RIP) said about cheating: Why would I want hamburgers when I got steak at home?
     
  3. Tokyo Slim

    Tokyo Slim In Time Out

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    Thanks for all the kind words and anectdotes. I've had to "grow up" alot, and it always helps to have someone you love and cherish to make you want to be a better person. That being said, devotion, love, and respect evidently aren't enough for some women... [​IMG]

    Sad but true.
     
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    Beta Senior member

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    True story: I had been dating the woman who would become Mrs. Thomas for around six months when she went into the hospital for a test. They ended up nearly killing her and kept her for four months. I went to see her pretty well every day (twice a day on weekends), and around a month into her stay it occurred to me that it was very unlike me to be this devoted.

    Our ten-year anniversay is this month.


    you are lucky to both have what it is you have and to actually realize it.
     
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    Mauby Senior member

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    True story: I had been dating the woman who would become Mrs. Thomas for around six months when she went into the hospital for a test. They ended up nearly killing her and kept her for four months. I went to see her pretty well every day (twice a day on weekends), and around a month into her stay it occurred to me that it was very unlike me to be this devoted.

    Our ten-year anniversay is this month.


    Cool man. I love hearing shit like that.
     
  6. TyCooN

    TyCooN Senior member

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    Here's something I'm confused about, most guys will have sex with a girl who already has a boyfriend without a second thought, but when you bring up cheating to them you will get a moral lesson. How does this work?
     
  7. Davidko19

    Davidko19 Senior member

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    I cant speak for married guys cause Im not and dont know the ins and outs of it, but speaking as a guy who just dates around...just do it, screw the consequences.

    Most girls will cheat on you when presented with something richer, better looking, more successful, etc... Get yours, son.
     
  8. Nouveau Pauvre

    Nouveau Pauvre Senior member

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    Truth. Cheating on someone is bullshit. Either you respect and care for someone or you don't. If you want something more than what you've got - go find it... but don't fuck around, lie, and be selfish to try and keep something you don't deserve.

    bump for epic justice.
     
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    garmentmerchant Senior member

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    I cant get any ass to begin with let alone cheat on some. You guys are such studs
     
  10. Nouveau Pauvre

    Nouveau Pauvre Senior member

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    ^ it's because you live in Jessup. lol.
     
  11. Tokyo Slim

    Tokyo Slim In Time Out

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    Here's something I'm confused about, most guys will have sex with a girl who already has a boyfriend without a second thought, but when you bring up cheating to them you will get a moral lesson. How does this work?

    What i said goes for both sexes equally.
    I've been cheated on more recently than i've cheated. Its not any less a selfish, bullshit, disrespectful event just because a woman is doing it. I've turned down married women on a number of occasions. Just so you know who you are being morally repremanded by. I'm no hypocrite. [​IMG]
     
  12. TyCooN

    TyCooN Senior member

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    What i said goes for both sexes equally.
    I've been cheated on more recently than i've cheated. Its not any less a selfish, bullshit, disrespectful event just because a woman is doing it. I've turned down married women on a number of occasions.

    RESPECT for not being hypocritical
     
  13. ken

    ken Banned by Request

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    I once made the same mixtape for two different girls. I felt awful.
     
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    I have no respect for people who cheat. My best friend's dad walked out on his family for another woman he had been sleeping with. He's done an excellent job fucking up his kids and is putting his wife through hell. What a cunt.
    I once made the same mixtape for two different girls. I felt awful.
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  15. Gravitas

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    Whoever said get yours while the gettin' is good needs to go find a conscience. If you are going to cheat on someone, just break up. Don't be a slut and sleep around, loyalty should still be prized these days (this goes for both sexes). Now I realize that for some it may not be possible to just "break up," that doesn't mean the relationship need be over, just add some spice or don't commit in the first place.

    Now here is a question for international SFers, is cheating as prevalent or as publicized as it is in 'Merica where you are?
     

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