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How to get over things your gf has done in the past.

PaulYAY

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Originally Posted by Magician
Anyone else remember that fantastic scene from The Last Picture Show?


no. which scene?
 

Nouveau Pauvre

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Originally Posted by PaulYAY
no. which scene?

When she's in the kitchen at that party with the suave guy and he asks her if she's a virgin and he says well come back when you're not.
 

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Originally Posted by Somehow
No matter how much you kid yourselves, 12 is a high number for a 20 year old female.

It is most likely indicative of the girl's self-esteem issues, in which case the person would be wise not to dump her - as she will likely be willing to withstand severe emotional abuse.


QFT. Being 27 now it doesn't seem like a high number but when I was 19-20, 12 was a lot.
 

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This fear will burden you until the day you stop having sex. There will be a short interval there where you forget it. But you will pick it up again soon. Sorry.

Lived it, felt it, died by it.
 

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Originally Posted by Étienne
Yes. Come on, 12 is not a big number. 50 or 100 would probably be a problem, anything else not so much.

the more practice she has had the better she is gonna be in bed.

ya we all want a Virgin who can f*** like a PornStar but seriously
i think when you get in your 30's it wont matter much.

BTW 12 partners is nothing
 

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Here is what I think. 1. There were some very good answers, including the poster who highlighted her age and your comment about "really loving her"...and said "stop it". 2. The poster who said it's about insecurity was right. Why would you give a sh*t if she actually loved you, and you loved her? ---------------------------------------------------- Here is my opinion, and I do believe that I know what I'm talking about...(otherwise I wouldn't share)...relationships are very serious...and although advice is helpful...in the end, you make the decisions. To anybody out there, I am going to be frank...please do not be offended..I am completely a proponent of women's rights...(women who respect themselves, and elevate their gender that is)... For starters. What in god's name do you mean you really love her. She is 20, you are probably young also, you will change, so will she...what does that say to me...To be honest...while possible, you probably don't know what love is, if you call this love...here is how I know...real love is unconditional..If she loved you, or you really loved her...why the hell do you care. who she slept with it sounds like some "red flags are manifesting" themselves in the information you may believe to be truthful about your girlfriend...listen to your gut!!!!If you think she has had questionable behavior in the past..here is the deal...(assuming you mean her sleeping around, hanging out with losers, drugs, binge drinking etc)...she probably has no respect for herself. If she is 20 and has been exhibiting questionable behavior...she probably dosen't love herself....how can she love you, if she dosen't even love herself??? Why do you even know about her history...has she done enough questionable shit for it to get back to you...if that is the case...drop her.... If she hint's at past escapades..she is probably trying to push your buttons and/or psychologically manipulate you....drop her.... You sound very compassionate, kind, and thoughtful
....find someone better. Find a woman who respects herself. You should not have to "get over" things which she did in the past...that is totally insane, irrational, and incorrect thinking.
good luck. If you are in college, have fun, date tons of women..date a different one every day. (some of the coolest hang out in art classes).....if your not...you are still in the prime of your life....rock on...!!!
 

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Originally Posted by Lord-Barrington
QUIT BEING A LITTLE BITCH!!!

Originally Posted by notalwaysrig
Here is what I think.


1. There were some very good answers, including the poster who highlighted her age and your comment about "really loving her"...and said "stop it".
2. The poster who said it's about insecurity was right. Why would you give a sh*t if she actually loved you, and you loved her?
----------------------------------------------------
Here is my opinion, and I do believe that I know what I'm talking about...(otherwise I wouldn't share)...relationships are very serious...and although advice is helpful...in the end, you make the decisions.

To anybody out there, I am going to be frank...please do not be offended..I am completely a proponent of women's rights...(women who respect themselves, and elevate their gender that is)...

For starters. What in god's name do you mean you really love her. She is 20, you are probably young also, you will change, so will she...what does that say to me...To be honest...while possible, you probably don't know what love is, if you call this love...here is how I know...real love is unconditional..If she loved you, or you really loved her...why the hell do you care. who she slept with

it sounds like some "red flags are manifesting" themselves in the information you may believe to be truthful about your girlfriend...listen to your gut!!!!If you think she has had questionable behavior in the past..here is the deal...(assuming you mean her sleeping around, hanging out with losers, drugs, binge drinking etc)...she probably has no respect for herself. If she is 20 and has been exhibiting questionable behavior...she probably dosen't love herself....how can she love you, if she dosen't even love herself???

Why do you even know about her history...has she done enough questionable shit for it to get back to you...if that is the case...drop her....

If she hint's at past escapades..she is probably trying to push your buttons and/or psychologically manipulate you....drop her....

You sound very compassionate, kind, and thoughtful
....find someone better. Find a woman who respects herself. You should not have to "get over" things which she did in the past...that is totally insane, irrational, and incorrect thinking.



good luck.



If you are in college, have fun, date tons of women..date a different one every day. (some of the coolest hang out in art classes).....if your not...you are still in the prime of your life....rock on...!!!


Of these two posts I believe the one with the biggest font best, of course.
 

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Dude just assume she had sex with all 12 at the same time and that the rest of the time she's an angel. Then it comes down to 1 mistake rather than 12. She was probably drunk at the time, too.

Problem solved.
 
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Hey, this thread is back.

I wonder if the OP's love endured.
 
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good for you dude. Assume you have managed to deal with your earlier issues then, and put it all behind you. Good luck with the relationship.
 

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Originally Posted by Matt
good for you dude. Assume you have managed to deal with your earlier issues then, and put it all behind you. Good luck with the relationship.

+1
 

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