I knew it was a bad idea to ask, though I did anyway. Dreaded "how many guys before me" question... I had a feeling she had a bit of history, but what can you do. I don't like the number, especially for her age, 20. She says obviously none of those people matter anymore, and she was a much different person then. I really do love her a lot, can see us being together for a long, long time, but ever since she told me it's been constantly on my mind. Have I doomed this relationship by asking? Or am I just overreacting and should move on, everyone does things... It will only retract from the discussion if I don't say the amount, i'm #12.