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How to get over a break-up?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by VMan, Apr 29, 2004.

  1. Crispus Crimson

    Crispus Crimson Active Member

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    I haven't sorted through all the responses here, but I'd suggest learning how to play an instrument. I did this a few years back. If you don't want to talk to anybody or just hole yourself up, it's great. It really makes you think about something else while you're learning, and once you've gone a bit into it you can express yourself through how you play.

    It was a great therapy for me, and I still use it for dealing with everyday problems.
     
  2. longskate88

    longskate88 Senior member

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    I think the quote "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened" could be appropriate [​IMG]
     
  3. Concordia

    Concordia Senior member

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    Women are peculiar. You can't live with 'em, and they can't pee standing up.
     
  4. Bona Drag

    Bona Drag Senior member

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    One word: lapdance.

    (Although you may need more than one.)
     
  5. whodini

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    soooooooo....VMan.....feeling better yet?
    Yeah, really. Are you finally ready to move on now?
     
  6. spacemanvt

    spacemanvt Senior member

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    have you guys ever seen a long distance relationship ever work out?

    fuckin stupid of me to think it would work.
     
  7. madison avenue

    madison avenue Senior member

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    I am so happy I found this thread now its like i saved 4 years of wondering why and how so how did everything work out? You gotta tell us weve been with you for 4 years already
     
  8. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    have you guys ever seen a long distance relationship ever work out? fuckin stupid of me to think it would work.
    seen a more-than-a-few, spent two years in one myself, never seen one end well.
     
  9. whodini

    whodini Senior member

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    seen a more-than-a-few, spent two years in one myself, never seen one end well.
    +1.
     
  10. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    im in a long distance relationship with my right hand.
     
  11. ghulkhan

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    im in a long distance relationship with my right hand.

    im in one with my left hand
     
  12. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    im in one with my left hand

    how do you think its going to work out?
     
  13. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    im in a long distance relationship with my right hand.
    which explains the reach advantage you have when you're boxing [​IMG]
     
  14. West24

    West24 Senior member

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    which explains the reach advantage you have when you're boxing [​IMG]

    atleast its good for something[​IMG]
     
  15. spacemanvt

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    seen a more-than-a-few, spent two years in one myself, never seen one end well.

    i wish it had all turned out differently [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
  16. Matt

    Matt Senior member

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    sorry dude. What happened?
     
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    Like others have said, I've seen many that fail in tears, my own attempt included. I've only seen one that kind of succeeded, and that's because one of the persons involved moved to be with the other after a few months.

    When mine fell apart, I was despondent and dejected for months, thinking of reasons for why it was my fault and how sorry I felt for myself. Just doing things to get my mind off things was what worked, just exercising, working on my art, and being around my good friends. What finally made me get over it was just getting out and meeting new people. Still took awhile though, and it was a rough time before it finished.
     
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    have you guys ever seen a long distance relationship ever work out?

    fuckin stupid of me to think it would work.


    I was in one for the better part of five and a half years. We got married in June.
     
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