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How Often Do Random Strangers Start Up Conversations With You?

Discussion in 'Social Life, Food & Drink, Travel' started by pimpmystyle, Jan 30, 2011.

  1. pimpmystyle

    pimpmystyle Senior member

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    I hadn't really considered this, but I realized that recently just about every day, someone I don't know is inclined to start up a conversation with me. This happens pretty much anywhere: a sports event, the grocery store, or anywhere really. I live in a small town where people usually keep to themselves and people they've known for quite a while, which makes this even more unusual.

    Do you think that perhaps we are in an era of unusual optimism? Is it because it's a new year? There is definitely something going on.
     


  2. kwilkinson

    kwilkinson Having a Ball

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    Daily.
     


  3. Huntsman

    Huntsman Senior member

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    Anytime I forget to turn on my icy glare.
     


  4. texas_jack

    texas_jack Senior member

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    Everyday. I live in the South.
     


  5. ratboycom

    ratboycom Senior member

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    I smoke, drink, wear sunglasses, have a semi permanent lack of expression on my face (often misconstrued as a frown), and am about a head taller than most everyone I encounter, so no, strangers do not initiate conversation, ever
     


  6. GQgeek

    GQgeek Senior member

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    I know that Ed will have fun with this, but men stop me in the street to tell me how good I look. [​IMG] Seriously though, I've had a few ask me who my tailor was or tell me that my overcoat is really nice... Seems to happen every 2-3 weeks. Don't think any of them were SFers... I wish women would do this more often instead of men. [​IMG]
     


  7. Warren G.

    Warren G. Senior member

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    Everyday. I live in the South.

    Same here...
     


  8. wootx

    wootx Senior member

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    I smoke, drink, wear sunglasses, have a semi permanent lack of expression on my face (often misconstrued as a frown), and am about a head taller than most everyone I encounter, so no, strangers do not initiate conversation, ever

    That's how we roll...
     


  9. Jekyll

    Jekyll Senior member

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    I smoke, drink, wear sunglasses, have a semi permanent lack of expression on my face (often misconstrued as a frown), and am about a head taller than most everyone I encounter, so no, strangers do not initiate conversation, ever

    ftfm
     


  10. pimpmystyle

    pimpmystyle Senior member

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    I hear Austin, TX is one of the friendliest cities in the US. Is this correct?
     


  11. StephenHero

    StephenHero Black Floridian

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    Not often, but people always ask me for help when I'm inside a store as if I'm an employee. Dressing a peg above the lowest rung must give folks impression that I know where the restrooms and food processors are.
     


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    eglbc Senior member

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    never (live in long beach,ca)
     


  13. Gibonius

    Gibonius Senior member

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    Quite frequently, especially when I'm out walking my dog. Greyhounds draw attention, apparently.
     


  14. lee_44106

    lee_44106 Senior member

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    One of the biggest reasons why I love NYC is because people don't do stuff like that.....[​IMG]
     


  15. imschatz

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    Pretty common here. Never get interrupted, but if I'm standing around waiting for the bus, or waiting in line at the grocer .. it's considered polite to at least acknowledge the people around you.
     


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